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Kristofer Couture

2021-05-03

On January 27, 2019, an off-duty law enforcement officer observed an abandoned car at a popular trailhead in Chilliwack, British Columbia. The vehicle had a broken rear window, and the police later impounded it, but no one ever came forward. Several months later, the RCMP sent a notice to its registered owner, 25-year-old Kristofer Couture, a native of Alberta. By that time, it was May, and no one had seen or heard from Kristofer in over three months. 

If you have any information about the disappearance of Kristofer Couture, please call the Chilliwack Royal Canadian Mounted Police at 604-792-4611. You may also call Crime Stoppers at 1-800-222-8477. Kristofer’s family is offering a reward of $10,000. You can follow Kristofer’s story on social media at Missing: Kristofer (Kris) Couture.

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eighty four, what you believe in right now and, as I love my son. On january, twenty seventh, two thousand nineteen and
study law enforcement officer observed and abandoned car at a popular trail head in chile, whack british columbia, the rear window of the car was broken and the police eventually impounded it, but no one ever came forward in several months later. They send a notice to its registered owner twenty five year old, christopher couture, a native of Alberta. By that time it was may, and no one had seen or heard from Christopher and over three months on marisa and from wondering this episode. Two hundred and eighty two of the vanished christopher could shores story.
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but the rear window was smashed. It was an uncommon for hikers to leave their cars at the trail head, but this call appeared to be abandoned and it was january when the temperatures average twenty five to thirty five degrees fahrenheit. So the officer mark the car as abandoned with a police sticker and went on with his day. This january, twenty seventh, two thousand nineteen be more than ninety days before Christopher mother, iva found out that is, car had been abandoned and toad by the police, and she only learned of it because our sea mp sent Christopher the registered owner a note. to his mother's address until time eva wasn't sure why she hadn't heard from her youngest son, but she knew that something wasn't right or wrong. urgent, this case began with one question how Christopher a native of edmonton Alberta d, peer from chill whack british columbia, twelve hours away with his car. So when we see
to either we asked for that question he went back and the train here and pc, but wasn't the first time he gone pc for work, usually in the winter and then come back here in the summer and then go back and he just never could find that happy place, I think he he tried those hard you wanted things in life, and that was to find it Old friend and finally that he loved that he talked about them no, some were his brother was home. Austria and he came over to visit. There would have been december- two thousand eighteen him here, Rather they have an exit and his knife. He both boys together because with one having in australia and one here it'll. That does not happen very often. I should backup crystal move
home for a while that year, on July, two thousand eighteen till november, two thousand and page that money and bought himself that far found a place to live and he moved. Again. In november. but december seen his brother and I didn't see much chris over the holidays, I hear but we pretty much talk, trees, not every day. Every other day him he did move, should be seen. It it'll with january you found a job with a roofing company. Even a close friend named bats. Who is Christopher and his family. For most of his life. She agreed to speak with us also and told us the reasons she believed that christopher made such a big move. Far away from his home, he had left before were like the summer before that, like a the young people there just like finding their way right and
it was. I think she didn't feel the connections to Edmonton or Edmonton gave a lot of pain for him because of god had passed down, saw he He was trying to find himself trying to figure out what he wanted to do and he had lived in vancouver? I guess the somber before and he and it really enjoy. As far as like he told his mother That's why he wanted about, because he Well, if I've mentioned any more like he didn't want to live here anymore, I'd have too many memories and he loved the mountains and he loved the ocean, and it was all in like in vancouver's he could. He could have that. That he had actually worked for everything company the summer before so it's not like he does. We went to bank super either. You know here We call this company before and line that work with them again. Like you know, he said I want to come back vancouver and they said we should be higher you. Basically, it will happen from what I understand. He wanted to go back there
even told us that she had helped Christopher financially over the years, because his work wasn't always stable shortly before he moved to the vancouver area, even decided. It was time for christopher defined, more stable employment, so that It consistently cover his own bills. There was that year, It was an awful lot of work, but I helped him up with brent. Both in january. It would been about first week of january s mouth I no more money you need to. I don't care. If you Where can I watch my we need to find a steady income now looking back and almost think trivial, but at the time I thought I was doing that tough love and you have to grow up and you have to find a real job and he had left her see shortly after the sentiment. An email with email I see what you want me to do your mail and he got respond,
the morning of january, twenty six, but he responded. Missus Allen My address hang onto it, and that was the last time we I centre tax after that tried calling a few times no answer. No five, ok he's mad, I'm not giving them any money cooler. Period and I thought he'd come around but didn't happen, his friend bets, also thought that Chris would contact as mom, and this would all be easily resolved and forgotten. I remember talking to her on mother's day that year, for this would be before she knew and mother's day. but we ve been hard, pretty sure among us today, then that mother said hard for her, because she hadn't talked to prefer a few months and she was starting to wonder and my family celebrating mother's day. That year on Saturday, I remembered the beaches
heard saying hey, you know like. I know you're not up for a big on mother's day, but just to let you know, like both my boy, you're gonna, do with their significance other family, during mother's day, so it's just gonna be frightened. I am- and I think my mother mothers there too, we're having a barbecued. So if you guys wanna come to stop by, you know, you're not gonna, be doing it thing and we were sitting my duck, and she was sad because it was mother, She was, she had just a couple of years term on my path. We were sitting there and she says. I can't believe that Chris hasn't called this weekend or anything. I don't you nobody else she knew had gone, the bachelor I'm trying and I just such or deny sir he's fine he's just wanting his space. I honestly thought that and she's like I know I know, is an option you know like if you want the space- and I think you just have to respect that- and I thought the sure that he was gonna call her.
I'm the same? I'm like sorry, I haven't called you and I'm sure she told you that they had had an argument and I'll do that office with our kids and everything by bad and the fact that he didn't collar like us first when he did have to thank, she was surprised that the what's it called today it out like a couple weeks and then a month it was, two days later, but she found out that his had been down and they started pudding. so together after thursday, which was celebrated in canada on may twelfth, two thousand nineteen christopher still haven't called or gotten in contact and asked in past even began to question whether her son was okay. It normal for him to go so long without talking to her and then just a few days later. She got a letter in the mail that answer one question but open the door to infinitely more usefully forgiven. Forget them. He became me, I'm holding a grudge
He was really upset with me here, but the one way it is mom was not truck He knew how important it is to me there. family unit, and I just figured he was trying to hurt me by not answering my calls on may seven. They when it finally went and got my stance car when they finally code it smashed window, punched out ignition punch stout, come latch and was an drivable. I got notified by a single he's a paper in the mail. None letter head just a piece of paper. Then, if you don't come get your car it'll be tried no mention of a week your wallet We have all the seller stuff, but come get your far. They tried to call that day and night could not get through to anyone the next day. I hope again and turn my call famished
the main number so may seventeenth, I did my son messing. May eighteen at midnight mountain standard time, I got a phone call mr trim, sleeping had heard the voice now in the morning and it was from the earth, p showing me I didn't come get the car. They were gonna, send me a bill and destroy it and send me the bill the list was all even needed to see to become convinced that this wasn't a grudge christopher was holding against her. She knew something terrible must have happened, but what she no was at the hour c m p was already looking for christopher in a way because our investigations division was conducting an investigation into identity, fraud and christopher was the victim. This fraud had taken place between the time that Christopher car was first noticed as abandoned in january and when either was notified in may, here is evil
again April. Third, a wallet with my idea meant for located. And a stolen fearful. He was not put his wallet was they are thinking actually told me, me and asked. I know where my son was, I said, actually I'm concerned about my son. Don't worry is, and they said on value he's, interlock bc, cap mentally said but anyway the implied that it wasn't a big deal. They had my son stolen be always said when he called you you can get a baby now, keep in mind they know about my my son's car. At this point they have made his wallet and they never connected the two on April. Third someone tried to use my son's driver's license and passport to rent a vehicle, and that was not my son, able to confirm that- and it was
or did to identity fraud department, but they still haven't connected the abandoned car, the wall, and now this on April, thirteen there is sort of a break and ensure in the barn and while they were there He now was arrested, resting and chooses, and prevention of several documents belonging to my son, so old paced up still have not connect the dots. Mysteriously, all of this had taken place while Christopher car was still sitting at the trail head, where the off duty officer had marked as abandoned in january. Iva isn't sure why it took so long for the car to be towed but told us the police were slow to see that christopher's name seem to keep popping up as the owner of the abandoned vehicle, then as a victim of identity theft. All before he was even known to be missing even told us about some suspicious transactions on Christopher bank card that occurred after his car was abandoned.
van highbury twelve. My son thank montreal bank card with flash you got a husky gas station until act now my son, I was abandoned in a parking lot video footage available, but would pretty sure that is not my son purchase and he no longer had a vehicle. On April fourteen There is another report on my son's car still sitting abandon on April thirtieth. There was an attempt to use My son think hard. And again this was not my son one question that stuck out to us was this evil hadn't heard from Christopher since mid january, but how was even sure that it wasn't him using his bank card in february in two months later in April. Had abandoned his car and state under the radar for a few months. Only looking up on the odd occasion to make a purchase in
to answer this question. We asked eva walk us through the timeline of events leading up to christopher disappearance in his stably activities that she's learn from her own research Also through the law enforcement investigation. is what she told us very well work january. Twenty fifth, which was friday and he worked in the morning and the job is finished. He was supposed to go on the monday. They were expecting him on Monday. Spilt wasn't, a temporary he had a job to go back to ten or twenty fifty one the work in the morning at everything company he did swipe, whose good life fitness car that that afternoon in burma be location, we did go, there may be new caress, but they recognize them be the were able to confirm. I don't know how they confirmed it, but they were able to tell me he was seen at the hospital and new westminster I believe boy
a lump in anyway. He left the house, all that I'm trying Dave morning, it was just made down the street from that hospital at a save on food which I believe, and my friends purchase, there's no video footage because of its high marks, but it will stay I got no land water and called the police that chance, like my son, to purchase the stirrup, healthy eating paid a lot of jeanne only drink water. When I only water on the water that did sound like us, purchase we don't know why christopher went to the hospital, but he was well enough that he left on his own and went to a nearby grocery store to purchase food on January. Twenty sixth, we also dont, know why he was at that particular hospital or how is car ended up abandoned nearly sixty two miles away and over an hour's drive at the hiking trail. This
also the same day that is cellphone paying. For the last time even told us where the trail of bread, crumbs, clues ends and christopher vanished, then on january, twenty seventh on elk view road rider lake. My fancy, a covert located unoccupied. At the Elk mountain trail head, there was glass damage on the vehicle for someone had broken into the I was found by an hour: sam p, and they left it there. On january thirty of the call again unoccupied, was report did to the chill act fire department car was still there may still left on February twenty. If there is another point of my sons, vehicle still unoccupied, And further damage to it was still sitting the parking lot almost a month later, it's a couple of other reports of my sons, the car they must
keep in mind during this time. Liqueur was broken into windows smashed out on January. seven. There is one window smashed up when we see network At the end, the car was I'm drivable. It had been destroyed because it had been sitting there for so long. by the time the police finally told the car after months of reports coming in that it was sitting at the trail, had abandoned and being vandalized repeatedly over time. At least ninety days had passed since anyone had seen or heard from Christopher even doesn't know for sure when the car was abandoned at the hiking trail or if her son was even the person driving it at the time, it was parked in the trails parking lot, although the window of time between when he was seen at the hospital on the twenty six and when the car was noticed by an officer the following day on the twenty seventh is key. Small and gives us an idea of when it's likely that something happened to chris
even knew that when she reported christopher missing in may that the search for chris was already way behind, we, evil what the law enforcement search for christopher entailed ones. pieces of the puzzle were finally connected between abandoned car, the stolen documents and fraudulent use of his bank card and no word from Christopher. They did some groundwork that weekend. I think a helicopter over him out looking and search and rescue went out and they found nothing. The next few months, numerous kept were at first, but nothing was chris our seemed. He assured me that they were following up on each and every kip. We condemn to searches are south. One in July, two thousand and nine, gene and one in the tunnel. Two thousand nineteen and nothing. We visit numerous shelters in the lower mainland area recognize chris hide their czarnecki.
See out and be, team go out. Jones have tried to go out. But whether they had never cooperate with us. fly a drone when it's pouring rain, nothing has been found, some people, but there has been no knew tat. There was one tenth of twenty twenty. told video footage and it was not my son, the lasting honest farmers january twenty fifth, the only thing now, Be covered at this point, but has been reported. A stolen is its words and a licence plates was on the car so some time over the months shot and that turkey must come under the license. Plato. the.
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evil did rise, is the most horrible revenge of the year, and I mean the maggots revealing its aggressively scary. It will keep viewers on edge is happening with this. The mother of all evil to exclude all I want is your little baby girl, evil dead rise waded are under seventeen admitted without parent now, playing only indeed hers. The. everything. We learned in our research and from iva certainly seemed a point in the direction that Christopher disappearance was not voluntary, even if he had abandoned his own vehicle who stole his driver's license and passport. Who use his bank card who took the life
who played off his car and why, with no trace of christopher in canada after january, we want If there was any chance that he may have crossed over the border into the. U s, so asked, even if it was possible that Christopher would have travelled to the united states, and this is what she told us. I know you did not regularly fastened to the statement that we check out border I've been there been. No, you self him going back or into the state. Shall we ve been holidays, seattle and staff we would interpret over. They do report that advice fraudulently attempted to be used. Even work through many emotions in the time since christopher, disappeared and Many families with a missing loved one she's felt guilt and regret she wished. She had done things differently, many of the other families that we ve worked with. In the past christopher disappearance brought on the hateful words of strangers on the internet. Criticising EVA, she told us
a bit about that when Chris messing. We were in the middle of an argument. I don't know where he was living. To be quite honest, I don't I have a known address or anything, and I have a lotta regrets. The lot of guilt to be quite honest, I've been commented on facebook message, messaged what a horrible mother! I am and I know I'm not but dont and as I loved my son, one never caught a comment I got. That was. How do you know? I just ruin talk to you. I know my son something's wrong either way, I just want to know where he is- you know what if he is gone mummy. weapon. Tat was the clues and christopher disappearance, pointing to it being involuntary. We dive into his life. To look for anything that might give us some insight into other factors that may have led to his disappearance. So when we say To either we asked her to tell us about christopher early life, crystal
born in Calgary, Alberto slumbered, nine. Still remember that day vividly because I didn't have any labour, I woke up this feeling good said: gotta go to the hospital. My husband drove me to a hospital. We got to the hospital. Thirty a m. He was born it, Thirty, nine, a m- I almost didn't- make it through the hospital by zero labour pain I also would basically almost the same. He was such a good, maybe no way, she's, just a happy child, a blush I'm looking for some old pictures recently and he's just threw down. cute I hit at the normans mother. I'd probably bias every picture. He was very, very close to his father and wait they got everything from learn how to gate weighing thought and leave my late husband, actually coached.
tat. An older brother is well less. There were three years the turret. Both born in december, but I always made it a point that thing celebrated the birthday separately and that birthdays for birthdays and christmas, christmas, is never what the ending this first, they christian, combination chris first family was close, knit with eve s friend bets family when we talked bets She told us how she came to know christopher and his family. I if I'm their family in there ninety five so christmas, just and and the best way that I can explain our relationship is more family. We lived small cul de sac in serbia, the suburbs For that matter an honest together. he then run and brad lie. We raised our four kids almost together we connected
by the way. What me bad our children, people have two boys, Sir nicholas foreign and nineteen ninety miles of course, my eldest born and ninety two fifty four the tree and my son, just in the ninety four so day they were all really close, the gap which range from together fever on how together, we have read: their dinners together. They played together our kind of funny like when Christopher was a toddler. It was really fight for because it always is, I have a hard time getting him to sleep, and I don't know if it's probably because next it's a little bit older than him, and so he probably just did miss out so a couple times a week. it. Actually, how christopher come to my house for out, because current busily things She would have come there just what he could get a couple about a week. His press was always ten very, very much
about, go get her like he was busy boy, but he was a baby and develop. Sport said he very compared to those who doubt was like that, you and we will go on vacation stop like mexico. We then a couple times with a man. The staff, at the resort, vague, everybody up and playing games and stuff like that, and I think one and a word the one year we there for participating like almost every day or something like that, and he could get other kids going to the summit, What would be sitting around not noxious baby are you guys doing my car olympics than the poor Let's go: do it should open stuff like that, so he was always busy. You is a super happy care. as christopher grew up. Evil watched, her sons, personality develop and she told us what kinds of things he was interested in hobby, an interest were all about smart, pretty much
sport you can think of. Did I hear. He for a while the judge doctor and he played with doktor. right, I'm right up to maid eighteen, be rugby in school and higher. Oh well, a shocker and I'm crystals very physically active always on the move always going and he was smaller pro enough being a globally on the soccer team. He started working out his work out because mom a daily event. Email from one. His own nash, coaches, that is high school he remembered how chris go to the gym after school, and he would just laid up the room. I meant a lot. you hear that someone I don't even know late teen, thoroughly money It was all about tat, the jim he went to the gym hastily every single day
and you know, who watched what he ate and drank, and protein shakes very much about fitness. In fact, that was one of his last female Meanwhile, he wanted to be sent me a link to becoming ma, am a personal trainer, a course that he was looking up finally that never help even bets told us what she remembers most about christopher ass. She watched him grow up actually moved to different neighbourhood still closed when the kids were in junior high after he stopped seeing you like every You gotta think like you used to achieve its women at all what I saw him ass, a teenager or other doubt he now I will come into a room without getting your hug You know what I mean like you just wasn't one above teenager. young men who bear knowledge and outright spicy, but I'll come over give yet they had town make you feel like he was happy to see you.
and that's always how you thought Christopher grew up in a loving family with parents who doated on both of their children. He loved. spending time with his parents and shared some special interests and activities with his dad. When he was just nine years old, Christopher dad was diagnosed with brain cancer They told us that she and her husband tried to make life as normal as possible for chris and his brother, spite what would ultimately become a terminal diagnosis, cressets, father, passed away in europe, two thousand and eleven after a battle with brain cancer, for half of christopher life actually pressed by god hath multiple seizures picked him up off the floor, carry them to tibet. I wheeled him around in a wheelchair. At the end, like the rest of his life, was not envy and if his dad fell and couldn't get up. I couldn't pick him up too much for me. So the boys
help him that's how we lived our life, but we still lived it away and We could we stopped at the kids on occasion them get as much as we could keep on that much normal see as we could. He experience multiple hospitalizations mouthful, seizures where we had to call an ambulance one time Chris even in the vehicle with your dad in and we have, call an ambulance Until you know he learnt at a young age how to hold its head and make sure it was chilled hidden it didn't bite, is more a placement the tumor surgery, to remove the true my wife, not an option for various key, oh treatments and radiation for five years. It started as a dream. Two minute: slowly moved its way up to a great forceful the great two ways we could leader fairly normal life other than the mall seizure, not
all but grandma features that happened. You wouldn't know the look at him, but then the treatment started because the tumor started to grow so and eventually it might happen to you the ability to walk so take away, ones, mobility that was just on press and this Had obvious all of us, Christopher hardly knew what life was like with his dad healthy though the family made every effort to preserve normalcy for christopher and his brother and made many happy memories with their father. When we talked with she told us about their dad wrong Braun had a real presence, he was a competitive. I'm not a compelling the person, so the kind of annex if you're, playing games or anything, and he got stuck on my team- leave us like oh, no longer, really the person and He was very active with his kid. Don't run it without were very they were
and tat. They were part of them kids lives. They want coach to lock her christmas soccer. He was involved with his friends. He was just a very personal person, christmas, so close to his bag. It was devastating the eye with like a brother to me. Just like you, like my sister, we will truly are family. We both have been most of our own labour families that Well, at least you my sister in law run by an amazing person by the and of two thousand ten. It was clear to doctors and two Christopher family brain cancer would claim runs life. though, the family had known that round would likely not survive the cancer. His If came to an end at a crucial time in christopher life. Shortly before he graduated high school, even told us a heartbreaking story about this time, news early that is that wouldn't be added graduation and we knew
in january that that wasn't in vienna, Lastly, have a picture because before we put his dad in response to the school gave a fact I think our lakes take pictures that at the end, the very last two days, Had we not conscious anymore, He was in the mediterranean com. I do the multiple three issues: human, there the day and his god died. I keep both. I gave the boys at the option, wanted to be present here, not drift Y know. their mother tongue on that we are seeing someone picked their last breath, though it is get him in away. I wouldn't help them after the bad cat. It stays with you. No child should lose their parent before there in a doll. But Christopher was seventeen such
important age, when young men need their dads the most it's hard to know how christopher was affected by his dad's passing, even shared with us it. She noticed a change in her son, ass time passed after his father's death The next few years after tat were not easy on Chris he did change. I dont know how to explain that ten years ago. You know no one really talk about depression. More, you know it's a guy. You have to be this guy, I don't know, maybe I'll show with my group. I didn't chapters- I don't know, but he withdrew easter. The jap notice, the change more about a year later, where he just didn't. Happy smile all the time and not by he should he lost dad, but it's just to me he was sad, allow
We did have a therapist that he spoke to her memory. He was supposed to go to college him. He postponed it. And I allowed it given everything that happened in any judgment, I from job to job, then you wanted to be an electrician tried that out couple years, went on yeah, I'm a man lou but I mean, and then it would try to. in then it was roofing, though he really got into that construction side of life over the next few years and eat. With two more and more, when we, tibet. We asked her what she remembers about christopher in the time after his father passed away. We're introverted as he got older, he did But it had been introvert when his dad passed away. I can imagine living apparent at that age. The heat it's hard to away from from a lot of people.
hey more a loner. I guess which he wept when he was younger. It was a huge thing for good political stuff that, and you know that it's going to happen because you told that that you don't know what life is gonna be like. What's it happens, like your life is forever changed when you live somebody, I mean I was thirty three. When my mom passed away and was hard, then I think you do I'm a quieter. I think he was fairly popular war. He had what a friend but everything he was killed with a lot, and I think he was kind of got to be. no wonder I cannot understand. Why We do that to right cause if everyone around you got lights, haven't changed the way I remember when I bought passed away. It was in a different problem. Someone I flew home. I remember my friend pick me up at the airport and cars were just feeding on on the freeway- and it is the first time at the back and Emma jane since the funeral em and since ship so everything and others like now
You guys, don't you know the world is deprived of his heart, which is about their normal lives- and that was me- thirty three year old, so How would you react as a seventeen year old? I dont know that only seventeen All that I felt examined over thirty three I dont know I was jealous The seventeen year old, I by doubt in my world, has changed and all your friends just more worried about like what girl, they're gonna go out. Lifter, you know, like I can imagine, he was feeling. I dont think any of us can understand what he was feeling Christopher struggled deeply with the loss of his dad in the grief. I came with his passing, but several years passed and even saw some positive changes in his life. She told us more about this wasn't living with me at that time. But then she had a girlfriend met one. Can he moved back common? I thought in my family back there's no other way to describe it
he was happy again such a lovely young lady. good. I don't know how to explain it. They did steps together. We get stuff. Together again, they spent a lot of time together in he was working men, that's when he was an electrician, actually then they broke up and fall. I must say, is two thousand gotten seven actually follow sixteen that- was an chris moved out again after that and women. To that same, Don't know a house call it, but of a spiral of was a depression could have been. Our relationship changed where if you just going from job job- and I was hoping for them- they knew he was having a difficult time encouraging them to go talk to someone. If it was russian,
even had encouraged both of her sons to seek the advice of a therapist after their fathers death and continue to do so with christopher. When it. clear that the break up of his relationship was taking an emotional toll. Even said he did go, see a therapist and though he never exhibited any signs or spoke of wanting to harm himself. It was at last day with chris If pressed her was immensely, you actually dont know the answer with certainty. I'm not a doktor because he was eighteen, I literally do not have access to medical vile, whatever he served her spoke about. That was between them in our youth. Becoming Google m and start going things and then have pink the worst of the mother hidden. we try to commit suicide in the past never know the colored men killed out. I'm aware of that would cause us to forget who he was now pity.
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the. We also covered the disappearance of range duca in episode. One hundred and fifty two of the show ryan appeared from sun peaks british columbia after leave a party to walk home in the resort area, he was living and working in in episode. We interviewed his mother heather. Today there continues to search for ryan, but also works to support other parents whose children are missing. Heather, christopher mom iva have connected since christopher disappearance, and we call with heather to discuss christopher case and some Other young men who have disappeared in this area of canada, along with how heather's work continues today told us how she came to me either and learn of christopher disappearance, either was very first person that I
Matt outside anybody on having that child going missing and we were already back in beaumont by this time. So it was probably I wouldn't quite say year later, but you know I was just ted. You go through. Processing at home, how that looked like you know, changing from the landscape of searching for so long, and so we had mutual friend that of course you don't realize, and I heard the story and then one of eva's is very good friends. We shout tack and ask if we would give some sort of not advice, because every journey is unique to the person that's going through it, more, like you know from our experience, something that we had True, if there is similarities that she could draw from any resort. is that we heard that might be available for christopher, we wanted to make sure that if we had We could give it to other families, so she would
actually very per person, I'm what back from that was this desire and feeling, like a purpose, to help out family that would be going through similar experiences, so they can draw and one your plan going forward. Women It's not. We met at a starbucks in town. And so when we met- and I down with her and her friend and then nor I wish we sat down We discussed all the things that were happening. You can they give it from your perspective and went on you too, another parent never want to assume that they're gonna go through the same thing that we are going to go through them. They might not have the same network. They may have been completely in utterly different. But you know those first feelings of shocking concrete are always the same, and then what are you? You could hear purposeful after and I just remember, sitting down and talking about some of the things that they would have to navigate through how they did out completely up to them
Christopher disappearance was starkly different from heather son ryan. In one very important aspect, no one knew christopher was missing for months. Heather told us how she wanted to help even get the support and resources she needed to search for christopher, but the situation was so different. I mean at that point everything utter shock for her with, as we had something that happened very immediate, we were right their boots on the and, within you know the first thirty six hours of knowing even case was so very different, just because they weren't away, for the longest time that he was missing and you're sort of backtracking, and I think, first of all, You certainly can't believe this is happening. You can't believe it happening to you. You can't believe that happen to your child. You can't believe that all this time has that you have no manual nothing to go far to do all of these things. The only man- she was just utterly shocked and I think in this
and this has been going on for a while now obviously can. We had met and going. How do we get the search going? What what is that look like, because what happens Every official channel goes home and most people don't recognize that they do. You think, don't be always somebody there consistently at the time that your child has been. You been notified that your child isn't anything until the case is solved, and sadly that is not the case, and so When we got together, it was like watching do next and I dont know how to navigate the no parent naturally think about all the things that could happen all the scenario that could happen, but when children and then you, you ve, got to a certain age, Think, ok, there's a whole other aspects, it have to worry about that you, no control over. But this wouldn't have been one. So you know
If you ask me what ryan you know, what I have thought going to ski resort would have resulted in this. Absolutely not. I would have thought about million different other thing heather shared with us that, even though her son and christopher we're both adults there's a lingering feeling of guilt that if something had gone differently, this wouldn't have happened. This is a feeling that loved ones often expressed to us in the stories we cover. So many months had passed her eye, I can gather that the desperation is, you always feel like you fail your child in some way. There's always that an immense amount of guilt coming from how did I did not know how candidate, better. How can I fix this help him? I saw this I'm there. And I should be able to do all of these things and the woman man for is just you know. Her child was gone off to be seen. You can copy- we might not be in touch with tat- is probably natural for young adults there
they're, not children. I you know I keep saying children. Might my son is nothing or my child is missing, and yet we will their child, but then they turn rich and a gold and good contact is not quite as daddy, and so there'll be month, but you'll probably go by, or even you know when we were talking to ryan like he didn't. He didn't get back to me right away. Not when you expect a small child too, so there's another thing that you can think about. That will happen, but this is this: is it more than one of them Heard even share earlier that she was the target of hateful comments on social media heather shared that this has been something she has experienced as well and that it can a toll on someone when they're already in a place. I never imagined that they'd be. Let's go, get terrible messages from me, but you think it's ok to tell us what they think. It's happened to you. Why and I'm I'm sure that all other parent, better going through the receive the same or similar,
The only thing to be the same people tend to go group the group and infiltrate the group, then I'll, let you know the economically. You're, ok out an end to what is already a very tragic experience, and so- no just having to be aware that that you're going to have the most even people that will come out and the most supportive and engaged and passionate people and honour hide you are going to have problems, some of the working people that humanity have to offer. That will come in here like in a very negative way in, and how do you put back? All of that might thought process is that every missing person matters, but what we come to realise that people, not picnic cute, but they they gravitate towards certain certain people himself, you know when you have a vulnerable lifestyle life had somebody that I've got anything either their own mental health issues are.
in along that line. Drug abuse, addiction problem that some time society decide worthy and not worthy of being look for down- and I guess I only have a the issue with the amended from a very keen for the poor, but that from the very fact that I just I go back to having children looking at these nothing and imagining them a two year old girl. I always think somebody behind that want to know what happened, but everyone began to be found regard with them. The situation at you know they were loved and they were brought to this. Britain is a perfect the mountain and they think they deserve the come home. It does in fact the way people advocate their children, the ones that gone missing. It's almost like they're, afraid of telling people, the reasons behind it now for us to were very transparent, because I I don't know what happened to make by better
that make you know twenty one years that you have done this earth and what impact but happened that night. I think that you know my son paid the ultimate price for whatever choice, was made whether it was choice to somebody else's choice. There's no judge for me that gloved for my son, except you know I love him any desire to come home. We so covered the disappearance of a third young man, Marshall. I wasser inept two hundred and twenty two marshal was last seen in Alberta but his. Was found, abandoned and burned in a remote area of british columbia marshall. story is eerily similar to Christoffersen there both about the same age and both disappeared in two thousand nineteen. In cases there were abandoned vehicles on trails when we
with heather. She gave us her insight on marshals disappearance and the law enforcement response, which has been similar to what christopher family has experienced. You'll look at summit. Like Marshall, marshal wasa. He went missing in lethbridge Alberta, well, actually from Calgary went down to visit his mother and laughed bridge and then his burnt out truck. found in Pemberton b c, which is about twelve hours until is no video footage that they have been able to find your gas or future. Anything like that were the truck wooden. and feel that, but it wouldn't have been able to travel to our great show whether the truck was found, within Pemberton. What you, an mp catchment area until there was then looking over that. However, the last known of martial, would have been an lacked bridge. What would have been worth, but thirty p m what sort of an overlap between them, but in the end the family had to defer to the city of
lack courage and how they will go in both us and even after that, having a burnt out we'll call and you know all these things that have happened did not consider it that should not prevent new. You come into the outer play with you're doing what law enforcement sam is that they'll be preconceived notions. and so what you might believe happen. your child will be different from what they the evidence the job for the law, this time it was pemberton aren t that we're looking at that case and then it it's strawberry, they're like oh well, wash your hands that we'd check out the track. I mean it certainly burnt out. Looked like than vandalized lead You know we can't say that for sure it had anything to do with his disappearance, except for the fact that marshal had disappeared and their need. Put it down back down through the city and the the police, I believe in their case they believe. Marshall, get this concept and so they have pushed a family in it.
I bet family have pushed back and said I believe that to be true, we now have an earth. You know me, I just can't believe, and so I dont know if one portion of just look at it go well, that's what you mean I believe that europe, the facts, do not necessarily support your police. Can we not still just look at this was fresh. Without you thinking one thing and butting heads against us, I can spread awareness. like no one has ever done before, and I can continue to do that. All other things that the I can do it That period I can put, on the ground, and I can search for my son every single day and clandestine and dirt, and then among the carried on those things that I can ask you, though one thing, though, as purely as anybody, I had a loved one go missing. The one thing that we don't have is the skill set to do the investigation. I don't have the authority to go in and talk to people or interrogate people, or I don't have the authority to go in and and checkout building
There are any of those three things that I find to be suspicious. I certainly don't have the technology to go and do the things that I feel would be important. You, don't have that skill set and in my lifetime it is simple: likely that I will get the kind of experience and skills that I would need to do the investigations and though you rely heavily on our local law enforcement, and they, what do you do when you feel like they fall short or your please fall on. On deaf ears, You have the aspiration to find them and then the avenue their clothes and then there's only so much you can do so for it. For me, I can t searching the areas and unless something new comes up for chris's case we go back to the same place said the car was found and go kid. He listened our ground zero, where we need to to go until something pinpoints points been a direction bit difficult, prodded missing people, cases because you got people in there
and waved them. I suppose, or just this willingness to help them, but their go work. You know you, as you really think, outside the box we think about area. You really should be that in relation to that end, ensure that where it is like a dart on a map. Canada or the world actually and defiant thing. Ok, so you want me to leave the trace We know he was black sea what do they think outside the box, but are actually throwing a dart anywhere and you may have no weight. How do you know that you know of going down from the popular quickly found you know if we went all the way, to the end of the road or there's another part? Five, my you down. Well, maybe you, There I mean you start doing all these. What if you could set a search, the whole world and stone not find anything that you're looking for. So we can stay where we know we can keep searching as our ground zero
like marshals disappearance, christopher home province of Alberta, is nearly twelve hours from the city. He had just move too, and british columbia heather plain that she understands the problem. This presents to law enforcement, but also how their seeming lack of attention and christopher case was compounded by the fact that no one connected the dots indicating that he was missing or endanger four months ago. a huge disconnect on how law enforcement agencies shared the information, and I suppose it they will go back and say what we didn't. You know you don't understand the impact until later that this is going to lead to this, which is going to lead to death, and if these are all going to be a linear sort of line and we're going to do so. For them it goes to one department. I always think, should there not be a bigger data for putting things into that they cost weapon. For the moment you found a car, I feel like. I don't know
and I think that that differences, I don't understand how quiet and sound and then, have gone back, and then he and then told later, but in in turn, no conversation have been had to anybody like you, don't find that you Negro the court found abandon husband and then he looked like multiple high. The police have already obviously called within the first little bit and then Go back to pick up the car later there is such a big disconnect he's? Got them go well, let's reach out to the family wisest part here and then on top. It ought then to have the store, property come up and still make yoke action that would be em. I think for me the more helplessly you'd get as apparent when you're calling and can be used by the receiving, the third thing while yeah you know where your child is. I guess he then be. He can you that just
efficiency in them is a lack of empathy clearly reaching out concerned, there was no Inaction me? And so what are you? who is apparent now it's been man. You have done nothing for among those ones like credit most likely, he didn't check, leave and did not want to be found. So how do you get them? I understand the importance of looking searching for him in that area, because it is important another difficult these, because someone's been around for such a short period of time. It's not! we have made an impact, but it's always interested People go. Oh. How can you not remembered this person? He came into the gentry time, the wheat ok Kinda enemy find them, and then he worked out. I didn't they know you didn't actually have a conversation with them so nobody understands how impact for them. Where elections are an once. You told them he. I really need you to pay attention to this person to the next month, because in a month's time companies
and it happened, john- I'm going to need all of that later, not like that and what You is apparent. Now it's been man, you have been missing for man, and we cannot go back to where one because job No, I have to piece together that, and we have found that we won't have all How many at that time there is an urgent need find your son in the desperation to find your child, but you're so far behind the equal and nobody seems to be taking. In ryan's case arcy mp, were on top of the investigation, but marshal and christopher cases did not get the same attention. Heather experts to us what her thoughts are on that armenia lucky the officers that we had with the arts in kiev. Always then am I mean. Certainly we had issued only in the sense that we had people move on retiring, getting promotions getting transferred, so there,
a lot of movement in their anything. Quite what is always problem. for me, is that you know they say what, like any other business you're going to get that war. You're gonna get those transition that happen, and I was preparing guy I appreciate what you think me. However, not in here, like any other business that I can go, and say you know. I am not satisfied with your level of survey. I'm gonna take my dear fellow where you are stuck with your law enforcement and that can and have that relationship is really important but again like any other country. You're gonna have ones that are differently. the orphan p, then you have your city police depending on where, where the missing persons he had, then you might get sort of an overlap. Do you really all of them worked together, really wow anne and what did you know
bobby, certainly more at the time, and while he did, I wouldn't be taken more seriously. Get that probably unfair. However, their priority there. We were lucky with are, but I have been with so many other important cases when getting their going come on, dropped the ball, or is there not a distant he across how going to handle each individual as they are- and we had his work, because what I thought you were. It can only come out if they have been contacted by the army and p. or your long cords, local law enforcement and fill one parent knows that that this is the case. So when the season changes, he had the case at the inn around grand prairie when the what'll, it be in the winter time and come bring the art gnp
never contacted, search and rescue come back out and do a search once to know about it. Now, quite what parent you know that they had to advocate that you're going through the water hey man you're like the words, greece and europe, but you know what comes back nobody out, and so this person was found in the humber, probably leviathan, I want to see a couple hundred meters off the road of an era, that their response to this have should have been searched for should have been found. More light, gray, come he told me that nobody put the word out to do that, and so of course it didn't happen until you sit there and gold is. Is there isn't a flawed system on the key Can the based on problem to problem territories territory whatever. That is do they all have different working, pointing out how they cooker.
other cases of missing men in british columbia that have strange similarities to christopher and the other men. We have covered store of missing and murdered. Men, often with their vehicles, found abandoned, vandalized and sometimes burned along trails or other remote areas for the families involved. Its frustrating that these aren't considered suspicious circumstances that warrant further investigation could be a link at me, between some of these cases, it's hard to know for sure, but all difficult to ignore when you keep seeing similar stories pop up every few months. r c m p has stated that they found no links between the cases, but many of the families remain sceptical. Heather's, is your time working with families of the missing there, but continues to search for ryan and battle the emotions that come with, not knowing where her own son is in about how much go by
and wine will be only what leap remembered him be and people forget and I think that need them most a lot of things that we can control as parents I can control how well we advocate how well we read awareness, how well we keep our memories alive and and all the active stuff that won't happen, think your your biggest fears, but if somebody forget, like your child, is it's like? They never there's no remembered permian to them. That is the struggle and you go through. Am I dont know the answers and three years in I've reconcile about. The probability about finally can is wrong, and I dont know how that move me forward. one to be forgotten, but then again on foot I don't want my some guy could be,
The totality of one night of the february completely had a whole lifetime came before impact of us then fan but it all we ever? Do it really talk about one night, so I dont like karma. I usually, I will say light- has a way of balancing itself out so look it and go the lots of my son in whatever form it takes. My son is his insurmountable. I mean There is a huge hall in our lives in my heart, my for everything I like to believe that wine. ok, mom, you'll, never get over that law. You out, ever get over me being here, but what I can do if I can help show that bucket, that is filled with a lot of work and hope enjoy, for you, it won't be the thing, but I wanted and so I think that that about how
I try to look at things going forward that there is no reason for my son to be gone. However, I can have a purpose that will come out of that then they will feel like I'm not moving on, because I will never move on from it, but I can move forward I can help other families to navigate. Some of the things that happen between the intuitive than the medium term apply t eyes and the negativity and the wonderful tool social media and as well as the worse the tour There are four exposure and stuff like that. If I can help families, I'll bet, Then you have a date through something, then I'm imaginable then there's a purpose for evil. She's been able to piece together the few clues left behind and the fraudulent activity that was attempted with christopher card and passport after his disappearance. It, sir, Why doesn't add up or give her enough information to come to a conclusion as to what happened to her son
One thing I know about my son: he would not leave us car and belongings, especially workout stuff, there is no reason for him to leave us car, considering he just paid. For how many months the year, before his insurance turned up to date up until the time of his disappearance I found out, There is a fear of reason her in bandit his fire. I smoke they were more worried now about getting their money back, but the towing then where's, my son, left, hold them I appreciate people are still looking hand. That means the world's me, then nothing else. It's a little defeating. It makes. You wonder the stoa still alive we ve had. of numerous help. From these things, wings and mercy. Kasparov anew the amount of support Well, I never knew before me of the nineteen in the region,
it have been nothing but for those from offering us places they bringing us food, one were there for the searches handing out fires coming on the search of looking for fresh this lovely and family actually went and did the whole trail and camped while they looked for. We, implement a reward if thousand dollars for any formation, leading to my son. So what happened? Christopher couture after he left the hospital and made a few food purchases down the road at a convenience store? Why deep into the hospital, was ok, how this current abandoned over an hour away from his last known location in new westminster british columbia. Where was he living and who was he living with? Why has no one come forward? There are so many questions and few established answers in christopher case
This is what we do now. We know that on Friday january, twenty fifth, two thousand and nineteen christopher went to his job. Working in construction Company he was working for had finished up that project Christopher was going to be moving to the next location, but he wasn't expected to report to work until Monday. The net work day and he had not indicated otherwise to a supervisor or coworkers after work. His membership card was scanned at his jim and staff there later stated that christopher was a regular member and recognized his picture. We know that Christopher phone was last use on january twenty fifth and remains missing as well. We know that
the following day. Saturday january, twenty six christopher went to a hospital in new westminster and was seen leaving the hospital soon thereafter, his bank card was used to make food purchases at a nearby grocery store and even told us that she believes that those purchases were consistent with items that Christopher would buy. After that, we don't know what happened to Christopher. We know that the next day, an officer with our sea mp, who was off duty at the time, observed christopher car parked in the parking lot at the Elk mountain hiking trail outside chill aware. At the time he marked the car as abandoned and noted that the cars rear window was busted out. However, the car would remain at the hiking trail through April, when police finally toad it and sent a letter to even house that notified her that christopher car had been impounded. It was during this time between when christopher disappeared and when ever found out, that is car was impounded that someone attempted to fraudulently use christopher passport and also his bank card. What took so long for law enforcement to connect the dots between the abandoned car, the attempt to fraudulently use Chris first passport in at least two fraudulent bank transactions I had been reported to the police was simply amiss: communication between law enforcement agencies and departments. It seems as though what ever happened to christopher must have transpire during a small window of time between when he left the hospital and when the car was found the following morning with the window broken. But what may have occurred, we simply don't know, was christopher. Ever even at that trail was it christopher who drove the car their important or could he have been the victim of a crime elsewhere in the car was dumped there
or is there more simple answer like he went hiking in something happened or could christopher be out there somewhere alive. The questions in this case are endless and cause Christopher family, so much heart ache and distress without any answers. At the time of his disappearance, Christopher Couture was twenty five years old. He had brown, hair and brown eyes, he's approximately five foot, eight inches tall and ways around one hundred and ninety pounds. If you have any information about the disappearance of christopher couture, your ass to call the chill whack arcy mp at six o four, seven, nine, two, four six one one. You can also call crime stoppers at one eight hundred to two two, eight four, seven, seven chrysippus families offering a reward of ten thousand dollars. You can follow christopher story on social media at missing, christopher couture. I was walking. Know that, but he does
The family who loved him, and even if somebody something that they don't really think it. At the time bring it out. They should call time stop. The call that showed back are you have tea and tell them, because what you might be nothing could be everything I don't know how you can just disappear from the air, like that. You know like only what what happened there has been no trace attempts of january twenty sex not shouting out. She just wants to know what happened and be able to be able to know what happened in two ideally like there is no good outcome of this. the
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