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Too often, I fear the process of looking at your biases can be presented as if it's like eating your red.
it. In fact, in my fair one of the most fascinating and rewarding things, I've ever attempted to do is to take it.
Good hard look at my own prejudices and conditioning, especially as a white man. I wanna pretend this kind of
Duration is easy or that I'm especially evolved. I still screw up all the time.
However, as I said, one thing that I think is often really underplayed. Is that doing this work can be deeply enjoyable and interesting and also can pay off in some profound ways, one of my
I most important role. Models here has been a guy named John, be win who's. The host of a podcast called seen on radio. If he checked
the show has had four seasons, but the seasons that have had the most impact on me are seasons. Two and three
season two was called seeing white, in which John explores white people and whiteness.
In three is called men in which he looks at sexism. Big had tipp here to my friend seventy selassie, the meditation teacher.
and frequent guest on the show who turned me onto John be wins. Work ethic
It has had a big impact on me. I was not surprised to learn that john is a meditative himself in that this practice has helped him, as he has done. This often
humbling work, one quick audio note before we dive in you may here look
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here we go now with John be went down, they went
for common on the show appreciate good to be with you
thanks for having me, so I've listened to two of the big series you ve done seeing white and also men. There were hugely influential for me and I think credibly. Well done so really it's a pleasure to talk to you. Thank you. It means a lot to hear that from here.
So let's start with seeing white, it seems to me that the I really related to the conceit
as you are setting it up, as you know, both of us are journalists in you are describing your time as a journalist covering the issue of race. You always considered it
to be turning the lens on are handing the mike two people of color, never
thinking that only
to have a race, and so the whole idea of I understand it correctly, and hopefully you will correct me here- was to take a look at white people. Do I have that right?
yeah. As I say in the first episode that serious as journalists, I think we think white journalists and that's ok,
most journalists right as way people with
think that we're covering race when we're reporting on folks of color
That's kind of the conceit usually is that reporting about races, pointing your microphone and your camera, and your gaze at community support
when in fact, right
and racism were invented by people who look like you and me.
And so why are we not pointing our cameras and our microphones and our gaze at white people when we're reporting on racism? And let us be clear, we're not just for me.
its use, the word racism and white supremacy, which is over time
so yeah. That is the kind of the
fundamental move that I
to make in framing that whole series was to say
We gonna look at race through the frame of this idea.
Even the idea, where did the idea come from that? There are some people that we're going to define as being quite and, of course,
That goes hand in hand with the idea that there are black people and then than the other kinds of racial,
groups kind of get filled in later by some odd notions,
Racial science.
But we're getting ahead of ourselves, perhaps not in a bad way.
yeah,
the sad really love that idea. The foundational idea of the series in
and so it leaves me right in what you ended with there,
It seems like a foundational thing to know when talking about race, that it is not biologically true it something that was constructed by people who we would now
white, that's right! You can you tell us what you learned on that front? Yes,
and I think that probably
for a lot of people. That just sounds odd to hear you say that when you mean it's not biological, what do you mean? It's not. I mean I'm not imagining that there are people,
with lighter skin and people with darker scan,
people who were descended from africa, Europe, that's what we mean by white and black rat. How? What are you trying to tell me? That's not a real thing. So the point is, though, that,
first of all through most of human history,
the classifications didn't exist. Yes, there were people pay.
Divided themselves be in all kinds of ways, much more pro
for a long time by religion or by what we might.
Now think of as a kind of nationality or ethnicity or language
groups and all kinds of ways that people divided themselves.
This idea that there were three or four or five or six
no there's, never been any agreement actually on how many race
as there are what I learned in high school, then my social studies
book, was three races of humanity
mongoloid, cockers oaten be criteria, and so there have been these classifications there. These large groups that coincide loosely with been caught
central regions of the world.
There's some meaning to these particular
distinctions of three or four or five raises, that is a recent invention
or so hundred years ago. Four, five, six
years, depending on where you want to mark the beginning of it, but it was really an idea that was developed.
Over several hundred years, really up until the early twentieth century.
that some of these ideas were still evil.
Moving and being formed in being cut
added, and so we actually trace that history really tell that story. Oversight
episodes at seeing white series
So that's a really important thing to know, as I said, before, sort of
on fact, as you venture into this.
talk about some of the other big learning for you,
as you well on this quest,
yeah, I mean really another huge point that we may
is that that move that invention,
to say, first of all that we're going to classify and really the first,
seemingly in this is, according to the historian, ebro max candy, who many people, I think will have heard of he's been really prominent in the last few years.
and he's all over news, media and so on.
Really the first move was that europeans in
The idea of black people
when and why well fourteen hundred
fifteen hundreds and it was the time that the atlantic slave trade was really being pioneered and
sickly uneconomic
decision had been made that
we are going to go to sub saharan africa to kidnap
people and bring them in.
Slavery to raise our sugar cane and our debate
oh and so on crime, and that that was it was at that time.
That it suddenly became advantageous in origin
certified that trade
to say well, all of them,
people of africa, we're gonna, sort of lump them together and we're gonna call them a distinct group.
Is inferior, they're kind of bee
lee was a word that was used. They are less
us, and that that justifies
while a particularly brutal kind of chattel slavery,
that was not common and other people,
often say that there was almost all cultures,
in ancient history, enslaved people, but it wasn't
until really until the west got into the stuff that it was this business of generation.
Cogeneration you'd be born into slavery, you would die in slavery. Your children would be born in slavery and
lee treating people as property in a very fundamental way that
Actually not there wasn't that much slavery. That was like that, but it was at the same time that they were inventing that, and I dont think its coincidental that some folks decided. Ok, we're gonna, classify humanity into these large groups and we're going to do that on the basis of a hierarchy and say that white p
or at the top of that hierarchy. Black people are at the bottom and then
for a time. It was not long after that that you are also having the scientific revolution
you started having people classify linnaeus and people like that who worse classifying the natural world that
You started getting this idea, which was invented by slave traders-
a codified into notions of science, that there are three
are four or five races of humanity and
People are the superior one. Black people are the most inferior and so on. So this
that it was not just a kind of innocent, obsolete
asian, that lead
the invention of race. It was you know, as I say you need to follow. The money, too,
your stand why the invention was made in the first place was created, was invented and that's it.
Me those two facts.
I understand that racism is a human invention. Number one and number two is human invention, motivated by the wish,
to justify the brutal economic exploitation of another group for human beings.
leave for me. It's altered my understanding of the way that race works today and ever since you are, if I understood the point
that you and the experts on the show were making correctly. You can think of racism on at least two different levels. There's the level I think
it's us think about racism on which, as you know, whatever attitudes biases. I may harbour servant interpersonal racism, maybe, and then there is the races of baked into the structures of our society,
If I hear you correctly, you seem to be coming down on the structure part as the more important thing to look at how
Firstly, and that's a theme that we touch on throughout
series. I'm gonna mentioned the name of my collaborator on that series ginger I come anita whose a
These studies, professor, at brokers and upon
castor at an artist dinner, somebody who is steeped in
understanding, race, but also other forms of oppression and injustice and so on. But that
a theme that we had on in particular that he emphasizes again
and again we tend to think. As you say, we tend to think of racism is being an issue of individual attitudes, bigotry prejudice. However, whatever word you want to use, but
this is another point that Abraham
candy. The historian makes we get the cause and effect backwards.
I think what I grew up learning and I think what most of us assume and what we think is the case is to the extent that you have tangible effects of racism,
discrimination housings
irrigation employees.
discrimination, different quality of schools that children go to based on their race, to a large extent that those
so the result of individual prejudice, and
doktor candy would argue, is actually the reverse is true. We started with policies and practices
that advantaged white people and distant
adage black people and then, by extension, some other people of color and racist
attitudes actually grew out of that
So, as I said these stories, these fictions were problem
it actually to justify these policies and practices
but then also when you're enslaving, a group of people,
and not allowing them to learn to read, for example,
and keeping them in a state of as as eighteenth century white guy,
put it a guy named John woman. You know
keeping them in this kind of Andy
nephites state as enslaved people, it's easier to tell yourself the story that their inferior,
is there not exactly being given the opportunity to fully develop as human beings rider to thrive, but that the systemic,
structures- and this is why you know just in the last couple years. I think a lot more of us in this country
keep hearing this idea about systemic racism, systemic racism and I think, there's a
We still need to kind of get our minds around what that means, but
think when you retrace the history and you'd. Look at things like well. Instead,
eighteen ninety, after the? U s,
constitution was signed and the first congress went to work
the first two laws they passed were one that
the census act under seconds
if state thomas jefferson, which said
we're going to count white people and other free people and slaves, those categories of peace,
we're gonna go the second law they pass was the naturalisation act, which said you can come in
he commented unnaturalized citizen of the united states of america. If you are a white person, the free white person, so that's not just attitude.
At work. Those are laws and they were all kinds of laws that
in colonial america and in the united states, that created, for example, this idea about the one drop rule.
And these were laws that were grounded in economics.
was designed to keep more people sort of on the side of the line that would be considered black so that they could be exploited and treated as less than so that people on the white side of the line, especially those in the ownership class who own those folks, could make more money really right.
Oh, that they're. Just all these ways, we just keep returning to this point that laws
science, you know, systems economic, political, social systems. There actually treat people differently,
in very tangible ways, that's what we mean by systemic racism and the attitudes and
This is our really secondary
they matter in their real and they have
to justify and reinforce those systems and allow us to think that those systems are ok but they're, not the fundamental cause of often after doing all this work
what impact it have on you,
you did you notice your attitudes, changing and ten attitudes change.
I think attitudes can change
ass. I mean, I guess you know
one of the thing it's hard to describe to quantify. I suppose one of them.
things that I noticed was that
Most of my life- and you know I'm in my late fifties- I had thought of myself-
as I was raised by parents who were kind of progressive racism,
his bad. I
I thought I was not a racist and was raised to not be a racist. I was a journalist for many years like you and was interested in race and racism and injustice and thought that I was one
the good guys. One of the good way people who cannot
stood racism,
that it was a real thing and that it was a problem and I
one of the innocent ones. You could say I was not part of the problem.
And for a long time I thought that was enough
that there's a subset in this actually kind of, I think, dovetails with the
perception that racism is about prejudices and attitudes
the racists, the one who are causing the problem of racism in the country there. The people with prejudice and bigotry
and there are kind of subset right
And we can sort of identify them they may be.
Where hudson bring swastikas to the protest and
right and they discriminate against people of color
but we're not them so
can kind of go about our lives and
we're not contributing to the problem. So we, when we are actually rooting for people of color too,
when the struggle to stop racism, that's being done by those people over there right now. I see that
that's. Not an adequate
very problematic, as it actually makes us complicit if began.
If you understand that we're dealing with systems that all of us are part of.
and that I'm benefiting as a white person from
schools. I got to go to from the way that I looked at by an employer, etc,
cetera by cops. Certainly right.
By the way, I'm seen by a police officer when I'm pulled over.
If I am not actually helping.
Put my shoulder to the wheel to dismantle those systems and changed them. Then I'm complicit in that
what somebody like apron candy means when he says you're, either antiracist
or your effectively racist, because if you're not part
a solution, you're part of the problem? Is people used to say you know decades ago, so it sounds like there's two levels of work that you're proposing here
be interested in hearing about both of them. One is the work of
examining and your own attitudes and seeing if you can work with them. The other is, as you said, pudding
shoulder to the wheel in the effort to dismantling systematic structural racism,
about each of these levels and how you think about doing the work,
when we saw this, you know in twenty twenty after George Floyd's death and the murders of a model
burying brand
Taylor that that there was another kind of
surge of interest and a whole bunch of white people who really hadn't thought too much, maybe about the deaths
of racism in the country kind of having this awakening right and all of the books
the new york times best seller list for awhile, while books about racism,
wait, supremacy and I think that's absolutely a good thing for people to do
you have that moment of feeling like ok, I need to learn more, that's a good thing and
you should go, do that? Listen to our biogas go read those books right, the ones that were on the best seller less and
there's a little bit of a paradox in a way because that there's a
and based on what I said a few minutes ago about the primary importance of systemic racism. You say: well they
the solution. Then
is not individual attitudes. The solution is to change systems, but at the
in time. I think we need a critical mass of people who are able to see that the change that needs to be made, and particularly those people with this
Kinds of power and influence the,
We can change those systems right so that
it is also true that we need
our people learning, we need more people, reading the books and watching the right
documentary films and listening to the right path, yes, so that they can
have these aha moments of o? Actually, I'm understanding better how this all works, and that helps me to understand how I might be.
To get involved and what
would mean, for us too
in these institutions and system, so that we have a more just society, and by
involved you talkin about voting.
Certain way you talkin about hitting the streets. What does it look like in your mind? Yeah, I think it looks differently
from people. It's certainly means I would argue voting in a certain way. So, for example- and we talk about this-
In the last episode of seeing white, we talk about reparations
I think we should be having a conversation. I think we should really be looking at a
profound moral debt and actually a profound economic debt that
owed to the descendants of enslaved black people. So I put
finally would argue for voting for people who want to have that conversation and want to move ahead with something like that, but that can take other forms to write that recognition of
We got to the war,
this that we have right.
we're listeners will know what I mean by that, but the fact that the average white household in america,
as roughly ten times the assets of the average black household, and that is
explained by this four hundred years of history right reparation,
This is one way to address that, but there are other ways in our should we consider things like
Your job guarantee could that
inform the way we look at something like whether to cancel a whole bunch of student debt
it actually is relevant. To that conversation, I think so. There are those kinds of policy things. Yes, that could affect the way that we might vote, but is there
thing from that too, are their people.
my community
working on.
changing the institutions in my community to make them whether it's the schools or a criminal justice system or any number of other things.
Make them less systemically raises in there sits there somewhere can contribute to that work right. It's also things like at my workplace.
Am I an accomplice to my car?
of color, who are talking about
comfort and maybe the outright racism that exists in my workplace or
by the white person who kind of system
back of the room during the diversity and equity meeting in resents being there.
These are all they know when we could go on. I suppose, but those are some there isn't.
one or two things that I say to white people
do this I think
each have to kind of find our place and what we feel like. We can
but I also do recommend you should
feel ok about taking some time to learn, as opposed
I'm just saying, oh today, I understand that racism is problem and I'm gonna run out barrel and joy
the black lives matter, movement in for it
do the first thing that I can think to do, because you may actually do some harm if you don't do alone, education, first,
I know you're you're in
invitation to what extent was, and is your meditation practice helpful in working on your own attitudes,
hard to say, because I start
it daily or almost daily meditation practice about eleven or twelve years ago.
it's hard to say for sure that I wouldn't have been able to do the kind of journalism that I'm doing, if I hadn't done that, but by will
that it seems like there's a certain kind of parallel between meditation
actors and this kind of journalists
some are documentary, work
in the sense that buddhistic
I will talk about this a lot of talk about letting go, there's a lot of talk about willing to sit with discomfort with here
Something were also with kind of being able,
sit and examine our narratives about ourselves and our aspects of our identity that we may be really tied, close
We too, that we haven't really examined races to theirs it all of that feels very parallel to me with
idea, for example, being willing to say all right
what is being white mean to me what
of my identity and what are the ways I react in a kind of,
active and negative way. If
but he says whitenesses
problem in the world.
Ginger. I my collaborator on the scene white series. We open one episode actually with him saying you know why
when I'd even just refer to a person being white like
the white person aid his cereal justino, completely benign
AL way that some people just seem to kind of flinch. Some white people and
Gets that we're not used to having even the fact that we belong to a racial group
having that alluded to- and we get too we get to go-
through life for the most part, seeing ourselves and being seen, but at least by other white people as individuals.
and being part of a racial grew that may carry stereotypes with it and that sort of thing, that's something that people non white people have to live with, but we do
and so that when there was a story, actually Stephen Colbert talked about this one point where I think,
the country singer- I forget who it was, but he was in a fast food place,
and the young black worker
was just giving
his food. When I came out said of this is the way
either this that's his
in this country, singer got very upset and made
accusations of racism. How dare you allude to the fact that I'm white? So, what's that
that reflexive response
that's an example right of the kind of thing: what's it work there in rather than lashing out and say how dare you call me? Why did you say? Oh,
person call me why I guess
certainly does that this food is for that black eye there right, if their multiple people and to just
learn to say with it and not react and to be vulnerable, be willing to hear things that are uncomfortable, etc, etc. You ve now taken a deep diving to at least two of the most sent.
Aspects of modern life and I'm just curious.
their been moments for you, where you ve been really uncomfortable, maybe even defence of her angry and
in those moments did you find
that, having a practice of looking at your own, mind, systematically and being able to watch thoughts come and go, and
do you find that that practice was useful when the rubber hit the road
Yes and yes, so I'm too much on twitter and that
place where, for example, and I follow a whole bunch of black people? And
people of color and I follow a whole bunch of them.
Women and
that's an area where you will see. For example, people will make these kind of provocative were sweeping statements about why people are bubba or manners. You know
or even like why our men, that's an actual tweet. That you'll see
Why our man question mark right where there?
the big question is it
Kind of, like men are a mess, and why do we have to deal with them and so right? So I can certainly
in those moments, in fact, that's it
Hashtag, do not all men, which is the
the standard response to that, which is what I am certainly capable of feeling like its don't love me and with all those you know those bad guys or the case of racist white people
I have learned first of all, what you learn in black twitter, for example, is orange
twitter, don't respond that way or as people say it's not about you personally that tweet
if you feel like it's not about you, then it's not.
You take a breath
Move on right,
that, yes, absolutely there's a conversation and seeing white where tender I come in. He asks me
how important it is to you to be white or earthy. I can't member that's not exact phrasing, but something like that.
And actually we then we took out another whole episode to kind of address that question until but yes I said
we have experienced discomfort and it's absolutely been helpful to me again,
again and again fact, every day many many times its helpful to me to be
both in this work and just in life to be
people to just say that didn't hit me
right or I'm reacting to that thing.
Take a moment.
I see myself reacting to it, but I don't
to do anything about it? I can just take a breath and let that go absolutely all the time
yeah, it's absolutely priceless that capacity and its
certainly not the case that I did it. Does it for
all the time or that I'm successful quote unquote at that all the time. But it's absolutely helpful.
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one of the things that I like the least about myself is how defensive I can get at it. I've been nuno meditating
but as long as you have in ready books about it and still get caught up a guess wrapped around
on this stuff comes up and just some
desire. I have like to be, as he uses phrase you know, be one of the good guys and desperately trying to tell me.
of a story that I am and then, when its shows up.
That I'm not it's like. I can't handle it
one of the things that really helps get him deflate. My defensiveness is to see that my thoughts are just part of nature that we evolved for bias. We have
or to serve quickly, categorize things and people, and that can be helpful. As you know, cognitive shortcut
it's navigate the worlds or in after you haven't a figure everything out afresh all the time, but it could also be deeply damaging
to yourself and to others. If you're, you know and dehumanizing, if you're just telling
suffer really quick and inaccurate story about people than treating them a certain way as a consequence of that
just to see that we don't have to take our thoughts. So personally we can view
As you know, I didn't order up these racist thoughts,
and so I not only don't need to act on them, but I also don't need to tell myself a whole story about how I m irretrievably rotten said: does any of that makes sense to
Totally and in fact, to use the exact phrase that I like to use in this case
text which is don't take it. So personally, I think this
So often what people are reacting to it
if I say, for example, whiteness has been a force of injustice
and really nothing else. Often,
where people here when you say that is
you're, saying that I'm bad, because I'm quote unquote
because I'm a european american and actually that's not what I'm saying is that what I say is not
you. Actually I'm saying that whiteness
as a concept really.
as we said before, was invented for the purpose of creating hierarchy among human beings
I didn't do that I do benefit from it.
but I didn't do it. So there's no reason for me to feel bad personally guilty for
having been born into that system, but it also doesn't hurt me to acknowledge the truth of that statement.
It's not about me and said
I think that is yes, exact
what you said so to not only where we wired to make sort
since those shorthand distinctions. Ok, these are the people in my group, those of the people in the other group, but then the way that that wiring got applied to these ideas about people.
in these quota. Unquote, races, we,
and create that either, but that,
We grew up swimming in that water right, so that yeah, I think,
We should be willing to go easy on ourselves personally, when we
It is ourselves with these in thinking in these kinds of patterns, but
At the same time, doing all we can to learn to see ourselves doing it so that we can let it go and not act on it
One of the things I really like about the buddhas approach is that he very much aims his message at the pleasure centres of the brain. You know it sir, yes meditations hard, but it will make your life better, because your suffering, whether you are aware of it or not, so, what's the self interest in doing this work looking at your biases, but
either be. You know we're race based, biases or, as again, will discuss in a minute your biases when it comes to sex engender. Why do at given how hard it is,
well it for me, I guess the young, the motor
patients have to do is wanting to be about
A person in the world and
In fact, I interviewed a white woman who's, a philosopher at the university of north.
a lot of charlotte and she's written a couple, bucks on whiteness
I can't remember how, in our conversation, we came around to this kind of question and she said something like
oh, what I'm raising children and I dont want them to be monsters that actually
choked me up now to remember- and I just
such an impact on me right because that's,
I don't want to be a monster, and I don't want my children to be monsters and when you recognize
depth of the injustice
In our society. That flows out of white supremacy.
I don't want to be part of that, it's kind of like say
You know I'd rather not be a nazi
I'm living in nazi germany, so
and people may react like wow you're. Calling me no. I mean it's an analogy right and another
This related is just that to me. I just feel more content when I
feel like I am living with the truth when I'm,
telling the truth. When I'm hearing the truth- and there is so much lying-
And gas lighting and misinformation and disinformation in
historical moment now, but actually throughout human,
story and throughout history.
our country, we dont, tell the truth all that often about who we are, who we were, who we are what's really at work,
but our society is really like and there's a comfort from a certain sort for me
When somebody says something that feels true or when I say some, certainly when I say something that feels true so the
Thing I would say: is that
another layer to it is there that I re actually really do think that we all have something to gain.
If we could build a society, that's more fair and just.
Yes, why? People and I've said this over and over again that way people benefit and gain advantage from white supremacist systems,
and so there is the sense in which we have to give up. We have to give up power. We have two maybe give up some advantages, but I think
At the same time, most of us would gain
efforts. If we lived in a society that treated people better and better,
That didn't have all this injustice and pain and suffering that comes from those hierarchies and those systems
yeah to me there's layers of reasons that feel like self interest to me,
yes to all that- and I think I would add, on top of it, like I dunno, if I'm gonna be able to articulate this, will here, I'm talking about bias not only as it relates to race, but also all bias.
Do you know, can be sexism, it can be ages and it can be the way bodies. Look for me. I can one of the more humiliating things I've learned about myself, as I can kind of place, much more importance on
but were in power as opposed to people or juniors and lots of kinds of sore.
Mechanisms at the mine. Does that are hard to look at, but I think worth looking at one, because there is it,
kind of pleasure, although maybe at times perverse pleasure.
Like seeing what your mind is actually doing, because then, when you see it, you're not held hostage by it. So I think there's that actually, in my experience is
measurable and then the august. Everything I'd add is that
when you are not so yanked around your biased
and by the way I would add in inlet, tribal biases too. You know
pain associated with dogmatism and when you're not walking around
I'm just trying to defend every random thought. That's come up into your head, like you get along better with people and when you get along better with people, your
happier and then you're in an upward spiral of the year.
beer, and then you get along even better with people and then you're, even happier, et cetera, et cetera, I'll stop again, because I just want to check this with you to see if it lands absolutely
and, yes, I think, you're a happier personally. Most of us are happier if we aren't you
gripping arm. But
leaves about what's true or are
as you say, are tribal identity or I belong to this.
Political party or
political ideology and I'm gonna feel terrible. If there's a fact that I hear that
just that the other side may be right in this case,
gets. You live a happier life if you just willing to kind
a kind of softness around those things and say: well, maybe this time
Maybe the other side's right about this thing. You know yeah yeah
absolutely that rigidity, those kinds of that there's a lot of pain in that and its
A source of I think, a lot of our divisions is that people are
Holding really tight
what they think is true and what they want to be true. So the thing
be right and the other guys wrong all automata. Well, I want to ask just
about that. Actually, an iron apologize in advance gazelle, long question, but go for it, so I ve been
last couple of years, really trying to systematic
They examined my own biases, which is in part why your pakistan has been so meaningful to me.
Because you ve done way more work. I've done so I've. I guess get kind of steel from you,
one of the areas of-
of my own bias at I've really tried to take a hard look at his is the aforementioned tribal bias,
journalists, just like you and I've, spent my whole career really working on the capacity to be fair. You live
viewed, murderers and call theatres and terrorists and and I've certain
don't agree with them, but I believe that I have the capacity to be fair, or at least I believe that, but
I'm also, you know a human being who is raised by parents who have views, and in my case they were he no sort of arch liberals and I can't not bring. There is no such thing as a perfect objectivity. That's a fiction,
perpetuated by some in our profession, and I've really tried to do
The work of the last couple of years of.
listening to pass in red,
and following and twitter people from all different parts of the ideological spectrum,
You know the far far left, which I couldn't you know sometimes have a little trouble relating to non us so much the far right, but centre right folks, thoughtful centre for right folks, and I found that it makes more complicated my efforts to look at stuff around racism and sexism, because there's some heads
knox views that you run across some not very politically correct view. Some aggressively politically incorrect views, because these folks are pushing back against
what they view as a sort of cancelled
culture or a religion or dogmatism of the left, and it comes from interesting people
I've been following this cadre of black intellectuals.
Glenn lowry, thomas
and williams, jamak warder.
And you are they really kind of taking action
with a lot of this after you ve been talking about here. You know that no,
of white supremacy and that somehow the country is even post
civil rights acts.
Totally. You know incurably, racist, etc, etc, and so I wonder what kind of criticism do you hear of your work and you know which of them? Do you take seriously? Well, you know, as you know, podcast, sir,
almost purely have self selecting audiences. So I think that I probably get less quit
can push back. Then I would get. Even if you know I worked in public radio for a long time- and I think,
was probably a broader audience for my work in it
and pr public radio system than there is now there. People who choose to listen to this
I don't get a lot of push back, but to the extent that I do more
and it has been actually from white people, for example, the reaction to the seeing white series
Unseen on radio, it's ten
to be people who came across it
even just say from a facebook, add that we did about the series or actually I did a ted talk
and that's just like an eighteen minutes, taste and so that people just listen to that, maybe or listen to some of it and they just and they re
the comments of this is another one of those woke white people
aunt I wait
haven't received very much criticism,
That's very substance! To be honest, I do thank you
there are certainly black people, and
People color who reject the kind of story,
and telling or the and take what I consider to be a more kind of stuff.
Men or conservative view of the?
tree of racism, and particularly of the more recent history of racism. I happen to think that their is
this wrong, but yeah
I guess I don't know really what else to say about it unless you want to till they get into the sum of the substance of that, but I've had debates, and I had actually a pretty strenuous debate with an old dear friend of mine, a guy went to college with it
darted over lunch one day and carried
for a year or two through long emails.
I think some of those analyses don't do justice to
really how pervasive the systemic
Injustice in the systemic hierarchies and so on are at work, and they often to my mind,
Blame the victim. By saying there are some familiar
troops like well
beneath the americans. They were hated and they were discriminated here was prejudice against them, but
You ve done so much better. Why can't black people do that and I just think that just doesn't do justice to the profoundly different experience than it
friend, history between japanese american, seven black people
were enslaved for two hundred and forty years and then
least from slavery with nothing and
and out into a hostile world, etc, etc. With ray
I'm still very much at play for many many decades after the sofa. Those are the cancer reaction reactions
yeah the model minority argument is: is tough, one last
along these lines that I want to dive into the men series. You
I use the term white supremacy a lot. I I think it's an interesting. This is something I've talked about. Quite a bit with a friend of mine, who's been on the show, a bunch, seven, a selassie we've I'll have to check with her before. I include this in the podcast, because these are been offline conversations, but you know I can see kind of two sides to this argument about that term. I think it's
technically accurate hard to argue with the accuracy of it. On the other hand, as a previous guest on the show
redder ross has remarked it be tricky when you take terms from academia and try to inject them into the
mainstream conversation because in mainstream conversation, white supremacy means something pretty specific, which is the people from charlottesville,
and so I'm just wondering like how useful is it to use that term? Given that
very people you most want to reach our most likely to be triggered by this affair, question
think for somebody who listens to the fourteen
part series are podcast, seeing why
no we're sort of taking folks,
a journey to the?
point where that term I think means something differ.
you're right, I noticed now. If I listen to the first episode of seeing white, that I use white supremacy.
In the way that I have
usually understood it for most of my life, which is that you're talking about people in hoods and swastikas that are open, overt racists and that's where that term, that term gets applied. But I think
yeah. If you understand more of some of the kinds of things tat, we ve been talking about that really it.
comes to mean something both more benign or more. Let's see more ordinary, but also
more pervasive with
is that we have entire systems that advantage white people and disadvantage
black people and other people of color and that's what we mean by white supremacy
to me it there is a process. I think of me
defining it and bringing people along to a different understanding of what the word means. But then it feels like the right word to use once you understand that
so you're right. I'm doing that. I can imagine
that there are some people and people do
Have that reaction. I think, with some justification
which is that when they hear somebody like me or like a black,
democrats activist, say that the unit
estates is a white supremacist country that,
taking this understanding, which is the clan and yours
that that defines this country?
people react against that. Understandably, but it's more complex
an understanding of what the phrase means. Let's talk about, does
you say you did after seeing white called simply men.
He went from the frying pan into the fire. Why? Why did you go into men after seeing why
A part of it was the timing. I didn't know what I was gonna do after seeing white and I had some head.
You ideas of what might happen, but it was actually- and there were a couple of people- always women-
at the time that seeing white came out
would send me an email or tweet at me or something and say why don't you do
something like this about sexism, patriarchy and I'm gonna, just put that thought
one side, I didn't feel necessarily immediately move to do it, but then it was the fall of twenty seventeen.
An harvey wines, dean happened and me to movement, blew up,
and at tat moment I just decided. Ok,
an end to this,
I did that it would be constructive,
an interesting and and that I would learn a lot in the process of doing
something modeled very loosely on why but just taken,
this approach. That says, rather than, for example, looking at a more
contemporary journalistic look at how the sexes, culture, work in the modern workplace or something like that to look at
how long have we had this idea of human human beings?
with sort of had this
structure in which men are usually kind of in charge of everything, or when did that start out?
start. How did that and to really tackle?
that story in the way that we try to do with seeing why and it turns out that sexism is much older than racism goes back. Ten
twelve thousand years, apparently, but that it was at least
in many ways. What we think of ass, this kind of hierarchical idea, that
men are gonna, be in charge of sort of them.
predominating, gender, both sort of at home and what we,
give us the public sphere politics, and so on that that can
about ten or twelve thousand years ago, and it coincided with
People, settling down from small
together groups into more
complex societies and doing agriculture and specialization of a larger community and stuff like that. So we meet weak. Tell that story based on what the law
Scholarships says about it, so the leading scholarship- if I have this right,
it says that when we were in short hunter gatherer more nomadic, there was more equality, because
everybody needed to pitch in
women had of
there were some specialization men might have been doing
hunting women might have been doing more gathering, but the women had apparently from what we can tell a lot more,
point and then, when we settled down into agrarian culture, that was the moment. Men cease to systematize supremacy. Yes, that's a
that's the short version and that's right when you had for most of human history,
it's funny to say that now, because most, what again there
all these shifts, that out to take place in your mentality, because for most of us, if I use a phrase like most of human history, I'm not
going back.
Very far. I might be thinking about recorded human history, but
If you really talk about human history, you're talking two or three hundred thousand years is what the scientists believe now that homo sapiens have been around
and for most of that that time people lived in small,
groups of what we now call hunter gatherer forgers and they were usually twenty or twenty five people at the most kind of roaming around together and most
The decisions were made on a kind of consensus basis, there's no indication that those little
groups had a male chief, usually or something like that. It was an end. There are hunter gatherer groups to this day in some
to the world. That is that's one of the ways that people can look at this question,
He has to see that it tends to be people sitting around the fire at night and deciding what? Where are we going to go next and who's going to do? What and alright?
as you say, there might be some division of labor along gender lines.
but also a lot of things are sort of people did things together, cannot
You know I've learned more about this more recently, a lot of nato
American tribes, for example, were
if not matriarchal. Certainly the cherokee people, for example,
they ran on, connects us very democratic kind of consensus. Based
Clan system is in their traditional form of self governance. The typical coming
de or village would have seven clans and
clan had an older woman who was the head of the clan and
to the extent that anybody really
was running the show it was those seven women low. Actually, most of it,
decisions were made with everyone.
hey there, including the children and a kind of consensus based. So that
it just was not the case
that man ran everything until about ten thousand years ago, and then it became quite widespread in part.
Can you know colonialism in society
is that were ran that way, dominating others and imposing that
structure onto other societies in that kind of spread around the world. That's what people think me so
interesting history? So many twists and turns out, I want to encourage people to go list.
the series
I ask you something that sort of
beyond I'm in a way which is you know that I'm curious again to hear what impact doing this work,
on you, as a man has changed the way
You view the world has changed the way you navigate the world
Yes,
I am probably gonna give a similar answer in that struggle with the question a little, but I find it hard to really just go
I were to quantify and in both
these cases too, I in I was raised by parents who were
the overtly. I guess you,
say, anti racist, although that term really wasn't use back then, and then also my mother was a feminist too, and I was one
Five kids and there were three boys- and she was overtly talking to us about. You dont be one of these male chauvinist pigs to use the language of the nineteen seventy, sir. So right and I probably thought of myself to some degree
as a feminist, since I was in college or so, but so that change or the lesson
I have felt relatively son. I also don't claim to be a really good feminist.
don't claim at all to be free of gender
I sort of patterns
thinking about
what men and women are like or of a sense of entitlement as a man or I dont- claimed to be free of those things at all, but I think
Similarly, too, I guess what my experience has been like with raise its just a process of making it
of part podcast series about patriarchy, called man, you know it
It was another step of just getting paid
this in a way that
Of learning to see here's how that functions.
In society in a way that I may be and thought about before,
here's maybe how I see myself
stating in that or I see it functioning in me. I see the my mind going having that certain you know.
kind of expectation or assumption about what's gonna, maybe
something that is gonna happen for me, because I'm mail or right or
Finding myself surprised that a woman can do this or that
that sexism at work in my in my mind,
No it's at yeah. It feels again it brings
back to this other parallel conversation, we ve been having about a mindfulness in meditation practice and just having
moments again and again, where you see what's going on in your mind, and
can choose? Ok, I'm gonna! Let that go! I'm not going to act on that. I'm gonna recognised that that is actually.
And untrue thought, and I'm gonna just let it go.
If we were to hand the mike your wife
yeah
no, I think it is partly
with my wife in mind that I said what I said a couple minutes ago that I'm not there. I guess
you know I have always tried to be the husband and father who purchased.
Bates fully in all the stuff
now's cleaning in the frame,
I've always been more of a dishwasher than a cook who has been a really good dishwasher, not as good as a cook in agenda. But
I can also feed myself and I make some meals in, but I think
that she would say that, yes,
There are some ways in which I exhibit some of those sexist patterns. There's an academic by the name of dolly chug, dolly fear. Listening
respect she has a concept that I love, which is so useful right on point in terms of everything you just said, I think, which
is good issue. Now we really want to believe that were good people, but if we can shift that too good issue, she says
that allows for
to grow so yeah,
you're being open about what sexism may still have.
purchased in your mind and your
when work too
through meditation through your journalism through your relationships to be better and those two things can coexist quite nicely. Think under the framework of good english. I, like that
yes and going back to the racism thing. We have that the fact that the very philosopher I was
talking about before who said
She didn't want to raise her children to be monsters. She would. She wrote a book about good white people and she's
actually kind of challenging the idea that a lot
Carry around that we're good, but goodish might be trying to be good.
and of what, in a way, what it sounds like you're describing and genuinely
trying to be good or to be better, I dunno know what more we can do that
a beautiful place to leave. It is there something that I should have asked but fail to. I don't think so. People should listen to the show
Then I wanna be careful not to spoil it.
there's just so much in both these areas and, of course, I've. I don't even know what the first season
The show was an anna and you have a new season. The fourth season on democracy, which I also having listened to so through the lot to explore on the show
thank you well, I am a fan of what you do, and it is really truly means a lot to me that you ve listened and you found it valuable. Thank you and keep up the good work. Thank you you as well.
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