Alright. So much easier to teach I'm going to get a project spoken to the laziest walla motion to fit most cars. The only way one was called to fit. What is up guys? This is Andy Priscilla, and this is the show for the realist, say goodbye to the lies, the faintness and delusions of modern society and welcome to mother fuckin reality guys. today. I've got a variant fourteen schoeffer, you especially further of you are struggling right now with the situation happening with the economy. You know, maybe your play His working out, the way you planned, maybe you're, even further failing in business or in your career. This is to be an extremely purposeful and in and she d podcast to help. You realize that, what's going on right now will ultimately serve you. Ok, so long talk about here is failure, but, but

for I get into it and before you think, I've heard all this before you had to her from someone who's actually built stuff ok, you haven't heard from someone who's actually built a number of different companies that are all very successful at whatever they do. You just haven't the amount of her people who make means for a living talk about failure. You might hurt people who are professional, motivator speakers and that's what they do for a living talk about failure book, today, what I'm gonna do is I'm going to talk about failure from the perspective of the real world. Ok, I'm a real guy. Just like all you guys, I started out. very little struggled, and I fought very hard to get this far in life and I feel it's my obligation to share with you how I did it and a big part of how I've done it. is by learning how to see failure the proper way and that's what when I talk about today and before into it.

I like to remind you guys of the fee- or I we have the best audience of any podcast on the internet- anywhere. Okay, we don't run any adds we don't have to run ads on the show. We grow the show to the top of the range consistently because You guys share this right and that's how I prefer to do it So this is a trade, I'm gonna Teach you something I'm going to share with you something Help me return, I ask that you help me out by sharing the show, I think, gets a fair trade at one worked out very well for us. Community since two thousand fifteen. So let's get it. to a guy's? Let's talk about failure. You know they're, so many misconceived thoughts and miss around the concept of failure. You know people can read about it or they hear me talk about a right now, but still

they seemed never understand, though hear what I have to say, but they don't apply. to their situation and guys you have to top that right now I don't want to hear about your fuckin situation or europe excuses, look everybody- has their own contrary popular belief. Now Nobody has a clear cut winning path this free of resistance and failure all the way to the top of the mountain aright we all have failures right. We all experience and our problem is we don't see the failures and others we see A popular after we no wonder if he's a fail, parent or spouse or how many times he screwed up to get where he is. We see some with the top of the business world and we don't want or how many times they fail to company before what are called making a big I mean every single, big name, the capacity we think of has expired.

Its massive failure to some extent You know just some examples off the top of my head, thomas edison man. He tried ten thousand times before he got his light, bulb the white up the first time in that invention change the course of the whirl henry ford's. Another guy that I like a lot right here. Multiple failed automotive businesses before fanny success. Again someone who changed the world colonel sanders was sixty two years all before his famous secret recipe found me attention of the masses turn them into a lifelong success. Again a guy who has had a tremendous impact on the culture of society, DR seuss another guy, you all know- was rejected Twenty seven different publishers, J, kay whirling started on Harry potter as an unemployed. Recently, divorce single mother, none

of these stories. Experience success the men, They decided to try to do something but instead of what most people do and quit they kept at it. Assuming you're gonna go out there and kill it on your first. Try guys is an arrogant thought. it's extremely naive: it's an egg, myles said mindset that is belittling you and, quite frankly, inaccurate, insulting everyone that went through this process by even thinking you're better than having to deal with the failures. I respect the hell out of anybody that goes out there and tries even if they face, because at least it shows that data. I think that there are better then everybody else. Ok I want you to think about that by you, thinking that you're going to go out and x secured on this play the first time you run it and it's gonna

score a touchdown is arrogant, people, spend their whole lives becoming skilled at what they do to think that you're going to open up whatever it is, whatever the path is that you're trying to be on and just jump on it? Do it really can't get me? more arrogant than that and when you think about it like that It really makes a lot of sense that we fail right this is why respect people that try. People that are willing to go out and do what is it. They want to do even know. They know. They're gonna be bad. I these people are going to build confidence, their goal, to earn some self respect, eventually. No. Have failed so many times and gotten used to give being offered, brushing it often laughing at it. They're gonna look back and say hey The whole reason I'm here is

because I have the balls to look like an idiot. That's really the secret here guys. It really is look at it from a person. Active of a little baby kid gas right, you guys. all been around enough little kids, no children general, you lack the fear of failure, they're not ray to try anything? Why is this because the food A failure is something that comes like for she well knew that still by society. Look Kid learning to walk. You don't wash then take their first steps, for down and then say man. You know what screw this I'm just gonna crawl while the rest of my life. It sounds ridiculous Ok, remember when you were learning about a bike. Did you pedal a few feet? down, scrape your knee and there never try again know and that's the point this lesson in the pit when you're just a little baby kid trying to learn how to ride a bike, walk Lesson is the ultimate lesson for you to learn. You just forget it

you in this lesson, when you were little baby baby. If you continue to try your have six as you know that if you take a ride for the next thirty feet, you might fall and you might on your face multiple times, but eventually because all the other kids in the neighborhood have learned rather bike. You figure! out that you know what, if they can do- and I can do where have we gone away from this Why do we lose this? Why do we forget this? Why did you forget this? A big saying that you have to learn about failure is that most people are gonna view it from the wrong perspective. I have a couple Please I want to share with you on how you should be looking at fair, you're. Ok, Number one is this: you have to realize that fail. is a scenario to learn from you have to re frame. Failure as an investment in your education and

in your knowledge base towards the skill or the craft or the outcome that your attempting to go, for polish succeeding in part, getting where you want to be is figuring out what doesn't work? It's a natural part of the process, and now what not to do his job just as important as knowing what to do you it only learn what not to do if you're willing to try and you're willing, fail and you're willing to look stupid and you're willing to be laughed at and you're willing to be embarrassed. Ok, age works in favour here. The older you get the more spillage you get in the more experience you get the more you realize that you fail over and over and over again in life than ever it's time you do. You picks something new up about what not to do and you

after realise. This is just as important as doing what the right things are, because if you can't replicate success in everything you? Do you're gonna be a one trick pony meaning you have to know what to do and you have to know what not to do and the only way to learn. And what not to do is by being willing to look like a fool point, two guys you have to get fair as a moment. Now. There are a few points I'm going to make here, and I need you understand all these differences. First off you have to make it a definitive moment, then you have to understand that definitive moment has passed. You buy an You have to immediately look towards the future and start moving forward again. You cannot dwell on your failures. You need to look back and go out what it is. You need to learn from them. Take that now

let and start to move forward again. This is what champions do you have to consider and recognise each fair as a low point that you can. from- and this is where most people do get lost right, they look at fair. You're as a moment, but then they start. They say. Oh man, I screwed up. Ah you know what gotta filed for bankruptcy see? You know why I guess I was meant to be an entrepreneur and that's it. They go dig a hole. They I can lay down and they die, because this failure double states them and then only operating with part of the equation in mind, right, you're, on a good portion of face, what did you learn from it? You're gonna get kicked and and that's what you learn from it, you're gonna get your shit stamped out here. What do you mean from it. These other things that you have to understand, because if you don't get up and take the lead from every ass kicking that you get life

to remove forward those ass, kicking you get more for nothing, so, let's point number two in point number: three guys is this: you have to look at failures. Unavoidable. Their part of the process that shit The way it is they're gonna happen and gonna happen to you, they're gonna, happened. Your your love, they're they're gonna happen to your kids and they're to happen. A lack. all you have to do is figure out why it happened and avoid that fuckin all the next time you walk by it. Ok only point number four is this: you ve got a view. Failure as part of the equation is part of this success equation. Trying to create success without failure is same thing is trying to break a cake without fuckin sugar or butter. or eggs it's the same concept, you have to see it as part of the process. If you

We'll get it like an inevitable step that you have to take it's going to be there much easier to pick up and move on when you get there stings when you get those setbacks when you hit those roadblocks, you just to understand it is what the fuck it is. It's an ingredient of the success recipe. each time, you start something new, you have to understand that you are going to fail. Not just wants Natchess twice but large. Dozens of times over the course of your life and the difference between people who make it and people who don't is how much of this ship are willing to put up with what you can The terms with that you'll be able to see hard to recognise where you are in the cycle and game to start moving forward from their guys. Look at Entrepreneurial have to become very familiar with failure, and I have

guy I've experienced myself way more. She seems like I'm only one than ever talks about it. You know I've seen it around me plenty times over the last organ every single year. I've been alive, ok, just part of the game, its unavoidable. Why the most annoying things I hear is people to come up to me and they say dude. I'm always had this idea or workin on this planet concept, and then these people are in all fifteen years older and are saying the same shit. This is What most people do because they're afraid of look stupid? Everyone wants to find the full prove plan. Just gonna tell you man, there is no failsafe, there's no sure fire way to get to where you want to go and no pain. that's your reality, you have to stop the fuck up. You ve gotta get over yourself, because the truth is, if you, haven't, tried to pursue what it is. You really think you could become its water, only two reasons, one you're afraid of me. Embarrassed you're, afraid of looking like a clown, you're afraid of your friends and family

laugh at you and make a funny you that's the truth, and nobody wants to tell you about it, because it's not popular, But here it is failure is unavoidable. Failure is teaching moment and a learning moment and failure is absolutely one hundred percent part of the press yes, it's just not the sexy part of the process. It's not the part of the process that everybody brags about instagram, it's not the point the process that everybody beats their chest about. On friday, when you drink and beers, what your boys right now, one brags about it, but you know what maybe they should because the more you fail and the more you move forward, the more you're going to succeed and- that's a mathematical statistical fact. If you care I understand that Failing shit is a part. the process and with our Failing shit, you can't

I simply know what not to do you The problem with your understanding of what the formula is, if you don't know what not the do you're gonna continue to make the same mistakes over and over and over again. So instead of being mad right now, because things, are shut down and said being mad right now because maybe you failed at something because of what's going on in the world because of Instead of like sitting at home and pitying empowering under stand that you given a gift here of a lesson: what's the less, what can you were? How can apply at moving forward, because the only way you're gonna be called a failure is, if you don't, moved forward from this point on to much. You should pitch I'm going to get in a project spoken to.