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566. Q&AF: Donald Trump’s Arrest, Friendly Competition & Employee Personal Development

2023-08-28 | 🔗

In today's episode, Andy answers your questions about what former President Donald Trump's arrest means for our country, his thoughts on friendly competition when he gives out a lot of his content for free, and does it pay off to take employees to personal growth seminars or if its better to teach it yourself to your employees.

This is an unofficial transcript meant for reference. Accuracy is not guaranteed.
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so I just started twenty minutes or me, give me some real talking and other times. It will be Seventy five hour versus seventy five hour versus is, or we bring people in it's what you heard yesterday. Actually with me. We bring people in we talk about seventy five, how we talk about how change your lives in, and we talk about how you can change your life as well as yet. No seventy five heart is the initial boot bouquet phase of the live. Our programme, which is available an episode too, on the audio feed for free it is not a paid programme, is one of the most popular programmes and world to get your shit together. And we give it away for free, so go to episode to await an audio platforms. Get that program get shit together, come back and see us you get on our level about that. Alright, so noticed that will never setting today, but we figured we do something different, I as not only dj here, but we also have the pastor of disaster. Mr Von kohler what's happening bro I can tell I've been on the show a couple of times. You know how I can tell that: has it cause my follower number has increased, but then I'm also getting a visit.
From the fbi, the other fish they neither you nor yet the knocking at my door. I can tell you another sir veiling me, so they go there's going to be part of it It goes from following two sending we're people to your house to knocking on your door. So depending on the early weirdos. Yet you know, there's always weirdos god will you might be moving up good anyway? they gets on relay moves up on the list. I dont have a mile and ass though you know I have my own tinfoil had written what we What was that you were We wouldn't really offer not. Now I think you qualify line, I wouldn't know what would preachers where their heads. But you got you got the crown people out and see my new and I gotta what illegally one. I know what that I should know this and on behalf, I do what I do, however, that there are other issues like a bishop like a bishop sat yeah, the point, forty eight afford you went out there. We yeah, I don't have one of those who do not we got it. We know a guy erasing. I looked it up, you did,
I shall be right after we ought to have something. Do we shouldn t do anything back no. Maybe me ass right now male or ourselves, some shit right about what are you my pocket? but so are its cue, nay, I think so. That is man I got. I got some good ones for you, yeah you like that trademarked. No, I think you can't trademark that it's common words. That's true, I mean trump. He tried to trademark you're fired, I think tiny. He did remember that he didn't succeed. You sure you're not getting actually framework that no, he tries common use then you would be able fire anybody. Then you go to forget. It was it good or bad good ones. For your brother cole question number one. Eighty on the last episode of really have trump turned himself in. He was arrest did there was a mark shot, but been released,
what do you make of his arrest? Well, I have a lot to say their, I not to say by then everybody had to say about an apparently your first of all, I think it's a very negative thing for the government to weapon eyes, the justice system, because what their failing to realise is that a pendulum is already swing back and by arresting him and it was a terrible strategic move for them. Yeah a gr, I actually think the day you got arrested. He won the election. That's what I think of bulk data. If the elections is statistically, if the elections are fair, which, though not but I think he got enough people, I got a few things happened. He had first, his mugshots gonna, become probably the most famous photograph in the history of of of culture right. our trump already had to outlaw that
Outlaw persona right, but now what we're seeing? What we observed over the last few days is we're. Seeing people who voted for Biden come out and say actively like I voted for Biden, but this is bullshit This is not what we want. This is not america, and so the feeling than I thought its creating in the in the population- is actually very good for america because their seeing how corrupt these people actually and it doesn't matter if you're, democrat or republican. When you see this sort of thing happen, and then you think, okay well, what's going to happen, if these people get back in power, that's a scary thing. Because now we're talking about a pendulum swings back in. Ultimately, who's gonna win with the pedals swing back and forth. As a person who kills all the other people from Donovan Yes, in everybody understands that we see men history over and over and over again, and I think even the most asleep americans are starting to
gotta realise holy shit. This is real I've you know, I've had a lot of messages from people over the last three days where people are like. Did I fuckin hatred but like our vote form because of what they're doing too, and so what I think they're making is a terrible strategic mistake and I think all the people that are doing these things are exposing themselves to who the correct people are, who the corrupt people aren't. I think we're at a time. right now, where the actions of these p both in the justice system. There, they go along with the persecution or they go along with the defence of trump were very, clearly going to be able to identify who is who who, are. The criminals who are the parents and who are the regular people, and I you know, I think that can only help trump We are doing because you know what we're frightens me man and we talk about their jobs. We know this isn't city abbot,
that's related you. You are an producer. Your business owner, you have multiple businesses, its I have to say that you know strategy right and your very conscious, especially when it comes to brain equity and and and marketing right, you're, very conscious on those things. and when I see this, it's like they don't care about. The optics very obvious there all amber there blatantly there I care about the opt out. And so I, when you're, making strategic moves like this as both as they are not caring. What the obvious looked like war, whatever the public perception is what can like what? What does What? What conclusion does I bring you to looking at that Well, it tells me very clearly that we are all in. And that's something that the conservative base and the common sense base for america is figuring out. You know, Last four years as we ve talked about these things, you know a lot of people. You know, as you know,
where's your tinfoil at all, and if we saw an dj, they're, fucking, domestic terrorist or conspiracy theories, the irresponsible right kilograms, and your way and now people are like. Dude? How many messages are we getting of people like the one that we put on lassie tee? I wear the guys like dude, I I didn't listen you're show because this and I realized I was wrong. Specifically the city. I did look, I'm getting literally hundreds. those masters at this point in time. So first. I like to say: welcome back, do you guys now? Now all the people who said fuck, you you're only good for personal development you're only this now to stick to this, those people and coming around realised that, like I actually wasn't off base- and you know so welcome, The city. I shows guys that's first thing I like, but that's that a snapshot of culture right. that's showing that across the
or even the people who detested that sort of talk, because those people were not nice to us, they were very mean you're fucked. You you're, you deserve to be in jail, you're, irresponsible, you're, killing people you're a piece of shit. All those people are now apologizing, not all of them, but the ones that with integrity are- So that's a snapshot of culture, waking up, that's how I see it and so on think of what how it affects the brand and how it affects brand equity for tromp. I think it solidifies him as an actual patriot and people, we're starting to realise that this mother fucker is like somebody We need a vote for we're. Gonna lose america and you do you guys. You say the vote doesn't matter. I actually agree with you in a lot of ways. I think there's a ten to twenty percent fudging of the vote. that they able to get away with, but I think with the momentum that this man is building behind him, there's no way to be able to overcome that that deficit, and that's why, like those views, I don't believe voting.
Necessary for you to vote in case. They do try to steal it, because that way will be evidence of their efforts. So I mean there's a lot to unpack your dude Ultimately, this gas in trumped up just like we talk about a really are on city. I all the time it's put the Jews to him. These guys were running against whom your data we'll have an option but to persecute at the highest level because they understand that if they don't get their way, the accountability that's going to occur from that is going to be severe. I think they're also trying to like it's almost poking the hornets nest right like because he's facing like over seven hundred years or something like that facing the death penalty potentially right and if they go through with that would not be the perfect. Ah, the perfect play to get the reaction. the american patriots? Why that's something to note dude, it's very important for people to understand that it these people are trying to instigate
a violent reaction or a mob reaction from the patriot community in america and we'll know when it's time you will know when it's too, any time you know remain, will know, and every we need be smart. Everybody needs to be peaceful, and everybody also need to remember that, like all your fellow citizens and europe it is in your friends, who're you, no more left leaning than they have been right. Those people are all starting to wake up and you guys have make room for those people to wake up like like that. Doesn't do any good for, like these people, too, were to come to us and apologize right. It doesn't do any good. to be like. I will fuck off bro you're an asshole like it's like. I know, dude dwelt great. This is awesome. Welcome to the team. No, because that's what this is. This is us forces them all. Humans and all the citizens are on the same team and the top we'll tyrants, one another team in the top level. Terrorists don't just exist here in amerika, they exist all over and they organized
they organise themselves in, like sitting organizations like the world economic forum and nato in these different, organisations that have been typically seen as good organizations, but the only reason They ve been seen as good organisations, because we had people representing our are our office that are affiliated with them in trouble. the first guy that actually isn't tromp was a first that went in and said: hey fuck, you guys we're out. You knew this stuff and this is the reason that he's being persecuted- and I thought one of the best from the last city I that we did besides. India landing on the move. was. I was the clip by them at the gentleman in Atlanta yeah, with the shirt yep, the new, my new favorite I want to say numerous for transport is only what I can say. anyway. These lists here's here's what I actually think he's gonna happen. Dude I am swung cigar, it's not! We, the
I actually think the short of trumps mug shot and then that sure the dog I wore are gonna be want everywhere. I think we're going to sleep people gain in do that's going to create a cultural phenomenon, potentially that shit, she's, the entire landscape, because why did trump? Actually Are they able to cheat the election? Will the reason they were able to cheat the election is because of this thing called the silent majority, the site majority wasn't vocal the way They should have been right so they were able to convince people that not, as many people were with trump than what we thought there were because half of them were fucking quiet because they don't want to offend me when they mega heads were to device of two. At that time you I I still don't like me, I mean I don't like the maddest slogan. Do I dont like make amerika great again and by the way trump didn't come up, would make it merits a great again. You came up with that. Ronald Reagan. That's reagan slogan right so, we talk about make amerika great again. The reason it in resonate with a lot of work and peoples because for us,
people. Miracles. There have been great right, like there's a lot of peat black america who says we may make amerika great again when was a great was a great when we were slaves was a great we are persecuted was a great. We didn't fire host right now black america's waking up? Like that gentlemen? Lantern he's? I look do this is the justice system they ve been using against black men the entire time, and that that's a valid point, and so like dude over the last three days, I've seen more black Eric and start to stand up and realise that tromp is actually fuckin the opposite of what they ve been told, and I think what these to these two shirt, specifically, I think, a For now you will see white people, black people, and everybody wherein that shirt and both of those shirts to cry eight o clock, a movement that we're like do we're all going along rollicked fuck. All these people were back to america. We can laugh each other. We can make jokes about each other, but we love each other, more friends. When I worked together, what did you, when you saw them yeah well. This is what I thought about all this is that you know any
be familiar with the end of the movie. Braveheart knows that william wallace is, of course, captured by the english and edward long, shanks and they're, going to they're going to execute him, but instead of just executing them, they put him through this pretty rigorous torture or cruel and unusual punishment, and when he first is carted out, the crowd is completely against him right. There they're mocking him they're jeering him, but over the course of the the execution when they see man, this guy's really being cruelly treated but he's bearing up. under eight in this really heroic and valiant way, all of a sudden the crowd start shifting and instead of them jeering at em, they started to oversee, they searching mercy mercy and he ends inspiring. Everybody now. I am not saying that donald trump is william wallace, but it's the same effect is happening. That's cries that people are look
at tromp and their say and wait a minute. I there are people who hate him. There are people who are treating him way beyond what he deserves. There's all sorts of foul play going on and what is doing it's it's kind of generating some sympathy, their seeing. How is handling and they're gone? Ok, maybe this guy's not so bad and their same. If, if he is being too Did this badly? They we're do to me like what are they gonna do to me and who is he threatening? so again I want to emphasise I'm not putting trump and level of of william wallace. but I am saying that the same effect is happening. No, no! No! It's interesting for those of you that are going to ask this is a pre drawn, sixty four torpedo cigar yeah, it's great cigar- and I got onto these because of my friend Derek barton thanks. I
I think your hundred percent right, I think, that's a social phenomenon- that's gonna, that's being created right now, he's being made to be a martyr, terrible strategy by the left by the communists. Ok, let's be real, and you know a lot of people who, I don't like trump or being like bro yeah. I didn't like his fucking tweets and he definitely wasn't presidential, but what the fuck right and that That's the narrative, the I'm hearing and soon observing and I'm hearing from people I don't necessarily like what you and I do on the show everyday yeah. So I think that's a big thing, interesting point so do you dean start is an aim since we had him on the shoulder a few taught. That is not what I say I. last show he was on. We talked about that kills because he's from england and his wife is from scotland and We talked about the tartans, I didn't know what a tartan was, so actually went did weaknesses. I got tell the story
I was hoping you work comes up and came up in the conversation, so they did the research on the tartan for my heritage, a right for seller and what they found his fucking incredible while two, so they found that my name for seller came from a tribe, a rome that actually went through france and when to scotland in the euro eleven hundred and they Actually called facility in rome went through Spain, in their name, change and eventually, when they got to scotland, they were called frazier clan and the frazier clan was one of the most vicious warrior clans in scottish history and the frazier clan. The leader of the fraser plan was actually executed with. Look at me with william wallace biking over the first and the phrase: This is my ancestor. While my fucking ancestor the phrase you heard laugh your head off your thumbs,
when they executed this guy with william wallace, because when they executed him, he fuckin laughed in their face It started the phrase crazy. That is crazy. Let me dude even go to your your your your your grandfather, your dad's, dad, like I mean, like your bloodline, was full of fucking. It's probably why I don't give a fuck it's. Dude. It's pretty. I mean you talk about universal purpose. Man like I mean I know how many other clues you need other than that, but that that's some pretty crazy stuff. Well, look man, that was incredible. You know like agreed, story: it's it's a long story, but, like that's fucking incredible so anyway, yeah, so my long lost fucking relative from like fifteen hundred ok was one of the duties that killed with fucking, william wallace biking, outward that's crazy, yes, wild. What fucking insane speechless mother who critical do when I ruined,
always lace idea, one on me to thy lurking ethical and for the record. The reason I was looking down was because you're tellin this great. story, and it makes me think of when I was going through my cancer, and I was watching this documentary reality. Tv show called men in kilts and is really great. If you guys, you check it out. They told the story of apparently the reason that they play bagpipes back in the day was that was like out. That was meant to get the we get it wrong here. So some of you who are scottish or irish are going to hate me for this, but I think it was. It was meant to get the scottish, isn't, isn't bagpipes scottish or is it irish? I am not sure, probably the scottish okay, so it was meant that it was like a it was like a one of a war anthem. You played the the bagpipes to get people psyched up for war. Well, on d a there was a guy. I mean you know the normandy invasion. There was a guy, Hu, I guess, was one of the scottish regulars and he didn't you
have they didn't even have a gun or any sort of armaments. He just play the bagpipes and he was like mitten trying to in inspire everybody else around is kind of like how revolutionary war drums yeah. But it's got a crazy like what kind of What is going to be the same fucking young golf right. It is better to have that kind of like a confident in future in an undergraduate ages. amazing to me that there will be somebody who would like literally storm the the beaches of normandy with nothing but a bagpipe. It made me think of that some people are just have that kind of moxie in a we all it's been suppressed. Let me read you the sea, So this is the email that alone a start centre Emily describing this this tartan, the priscilla name descends from the facilities who come from the clan frazier, the first according to scotland, around eleven sixty seven, Frazier online and east Lothian, aberdeen shower? Given
the name to frazier burg, aberdeen shire. It is about forty minutes from where I was born. This is what she said, but am I put out some of this stuff, guys frazier plans motto is Zeus, pressed and I am ready in the clans crest of bucks head there to say from the norm, the norman nights originally crossing the engineer. District of France and the new, comes from the french fried family who themselves, originated in savage tribes, called the poorest ellie in roaming guard. The net it comes from the french word, shrubbery freeze, so strawberry became part of the tribal badge and then on to the frazier coat of arms. Sir Simon Frazier fought. both william wallace and robert, the bruce before He was captured and brutally hanged drawn and quartered by king edward. The first that's crazy. That's fucking insane do ok,
the frazier s! I, the battle of fifteen forty four supper, devastating losses with only five frazier surviving the battle, and there was no the battle of the shirts due to the heat. Causing the men to remove their kilt, so they follow their dicks out. Sounds about right. the phrase use rose to fame during some of the most important battles and scottish history, including the battle of poland seventeen forty five, so they were killed down to five people and then in seventeen. Forty five have re, establish themselves and help them win this battle there, any stories about the clan, including the phrase land few head off, which comes from the secure, should have Simon Frazier. We was captured by in a word and and during his beheading he kept laughing at his captors. That's that's fucking said that is I raised. My boy lies. A bunch of bad motherfuckers. Rita I mean
Listen beg me I'll, be laughing to flutter. Left off the next four who has asked to have? No fucking pants on an island, we laugh and I I wanted us what I think knowledgeable showed little story is a very good start, the guys in the comments, let us know what you guys think about the jumper res. Let us know down in the comments. Let's get onto the question of two got a question up to eighty I was curious about your thoughts on competition with all the free advice you give out? Do you Several worry that someone will use it as a blueprint to move in on your space. Or do you welcome a petition and know that most people simply want put what you say into action. Or do you think in a completely different way altogether, would love know your point of view on this yeah? That's a great question. My views on competition have evolved.
When I was a little bit younger. I think that we are doing the original and messy. Oh, I wanted to flogging kind everybody stroke in step on their fuckin faces. I realise that nobody likes you when you act. so you don't. I felt very alone, and I started like real examined how I looked at people in looked at competition and how look at it now is very different than I looked at it even ten years ago or eight years ago, or you know maybe five years ago. I see us all as being on the same team and I do not believe I believe that there is a limited amount of success. I think there's an unlimited amounts of success and- do give away all of my secrets, either on the show or if you join our attack, give you the in depth, shit and theirs guys who own companies competitive mind that are integrity and to their credit, real
there's some some of the biggest nutrition companies that are our? I know those owners have sent me emails or letters or messages and in thanking me for the emperor. Issue, because his help them build their companies and the reality of of that I think, is amazing, because I think that that's cool in a situation where people are going out there and creating good ethical companies their employing people, they are you're helping people they're doing business the right way. Could you have to remember when I got into the supplement industry in the nutrition space. It was very much an offshoot of the poor in space it was just a bunch of how girls with you know, jacked up, do you would like of battle a protein right in, and people saying you know to do at work or work. that was not a thing? It wasn't. It wasn't things say: hey you're gonna have to fuck. work really hard. Do we we started with that back in two thousand thirteen and
Now the whole industries, like that everybody understands that if you take a fuckin, suddenly you're fucking work hard, which is an ethical viewpoint, because the reality is doesn't matter what you take. It's not going do the work for you there's nothing out there like that. So one I think it's it's. Created imperative industry and in an ethical way, which I am very proud of, but too. I think at this point it's actually at its action. pivoted and business culture as a whole to that line, we have. Thousands of people and artists indicate and These people are running similar types of businesses to the kinds that IRAN, but in there, space so we're now we're changing business culture, and when I look at competitors some of my very best friends, own competitive companies. You know honey, ran bodies. My very best friend that I talk to on a daily basis, that's not relate. To me now I talked to him every single day I've talked to marry, today since you ve been around me, I've been around every single day. He owns a competitive
when you call even he fucking help me with my physique in my training, and we talk big this and I help him with his business and we talk back and forth and trade ideas and theirs. the guys like that too, and the industry that have a total respect for, and bottom line, is how I look at it now. Is this like look dude I've? I've done I've done very well. I made myself A very successful human being is, first of all. When you're the only person, it's winning, it's not that much fun or I saw it more fun when your friends are winning a right and, unfortunately, you're gonna, become friends with a your business, is probably your comic Mission because they know the most about you there in the same fight they stand what the fuck is going on and you know a lot of people hesitate to be friendly with the competition because they're afraid that they're gonna share their secret. Listen, do you have any fuckin secrets, brothers, no secrets, Israel simple! Do the right thing do the best you can,
work really fuckin hard final. things you in there that work and go with those things and they're, not secret, and so the first thing is I liked to help my friend succeed and are in the same industries me directly like I will get on don't people who own other companies all the time. If I can be like alright, how can I help you that that happens every single week, not honey. You no other people and and by the way how to reciprocate snaplock he has I d. Do not just saying is not is a traitor s so. So the first thing is, you know you want to be. You wanna be friendly with people and help them win, because when you help them win then not only one women are right and then there's the harm aspect, when you help us people when, even when their competition. Now you whatnot in the universe that you fucking love winning and when you don't, when you put on the universe that you love winning, guess what happens to you, you win more alright, so there's that
but here's the most important part of that of my thinking on competition. I enjoy being friends with people who were like that. Push me that are getting good that are being better than are doing great things in it. Inspires me till I go hard you know what I mean like do when you're already successful and you have allowed success. The b I'll drive that you have is just not the same as when you had nothing short of providence, barrette so like when you look at your competition as a as somebody that you're going to make better so that then you're going to get better. That's a healthy way look at it and it's also a fun way to look at it, because now your friends there's a healthy, competition. You work together, both win more and anyone both were more you both we more and that's how I look at it and I think, I think, of I think, of american culture in business especially small business was more.
that we have a lot more success across the board, so and, of course I want to fucking win like dude competition petition with everybody, I'm around brothers, not a human being, and I'm around period that I'm not trying to be in every single way, like I'm trying to be whittier than you I'm trying to be more jack than you phone, I'm trying to be funny, I'm trying to make more money, I'm trying to fuckin I'm trying to do. everything better, but Doesn't mean I don't want that for you, That just means I'm trying to do the best I can and if someone else is also pushing now, all of a sudden we're in this dynamic, where it's like in your levelling up with someone right. So, like you know, kind of my that's my overall view on it. I think I think it's healthy to support people I think it's good. I think it creates, relationships and I think. I think ultimately, demille you're way more fulfilled and maybe happier in that scenario. When you approach competition. That way, because here's the reality, the reality. Is you're not gonna. Get everybody you're not going to get all the costs.
If you're not going to get all the money, you're not going to be the most jacked you're, not going to be the most rich you're, not going to be the the you're not going to be the biggest dick, like that's the fuckin reality of life, What does it mean? Should try right so and its call to be around people who are also winning, because you learn phrony better. They learn from you and it creates great friendships and an hour something I didn't understand earlier part my career, you know gag with everything you said. The only thing I would add would be that you know urban meyer can teach me everything there is to know about the spread offense, but pretty sure he's going to do a better than I am so weak. You can give people the ingredients, but you're still going to make a better cake, most people yeah bitten by having obtained like is not totally do, but if I could teach somebody like a man, like next saban had a situation where his his the guy george I believe, used to be on Nick saban's, crew, yeah, kirby, smart right and Kirby's beaten it a few times right. The knicks knicks like like you, could tell when, when kirby,
nick was fuckin happy about it. He was here. Is we use emotional about it like bro, that's fucking huge deal like you when you're winning at a level of like when you're talkin about while you don't have any fuckin like thing to worry about, you don't have any you're, not starving you can look at it differently. You know what I mean an end. key is look at out differently. When you don't have anything because, then you, actually rise up with people, so our, go back cause when you first asked this question Andy. You said: that's not how you were. and I would actually like to you what was mentality that you had early on were was fuckin its kill everybody right? Like You say that that was necessary. The right like was that a necessary part of that, journey is to have that type of job, at least in the initial beginning, yeah. I do yet when you don't have anything, I think it's really fuckin your desperate, ready
what have you been just open cool ass? I don't know anything then browser like now. I know shit hole we don't know shit you're, insecure about what you don't know. So you more aggressive towards a competition. When you know shit and you're your abilities, I mean less, can my level of success that I achieved being like that person Where am I now completely different right, and I don't think I'd be here right now had an I made that evolution. So I think it's important able to recognize the competitions. Amazing thing its action What drives all innovations, what drives all developments, what drives all growth and if you could be friends of those people, european gas derives you get you make amazing friendships cause. They all know what you're going through. You can all relate, and then, to really those people and are making you stay on the path and get better and better and better down the path. Less bureaucratic What good is like, basically like that mentality of the aggressiveness fuck, everybody, that's gonna, get you gotta, get. you pretty successful
There is going to be like a governor or restriction on that limit. As far as how much further past that you can go with that mentality- and I talked about this when we did my show really when he was on really f a while back and yeah- it is going to limit you if you maintain that type of personality, because you're going to get on a level you're going to try to level up and there's all these people above you on the ladder and you've got a poor attitude where you're like fuck, you guys on with fucking, kill you and happens. Is you know that, bourbon ladder, because you have to know working. You have to work with people and you have to use resources together, and I can't just we fuck everybody now kick off. The latter were you'll get Certain point in the people Bobby will look down and be like yeah and all Could each other me like that? Guy's, not one of us and no kick him on through three kick regarding all kick him off the ladder, and so that's that's what people realise- and you do see this with a lot of young entrepreneur when I say this on the internet. Now talking all this crazy shit and I broke the problem.
you talk in all this shit, yeah you might be able to make you know you might be the build a hundred million dollar company like that, but I will never be a billion dollar company I mean. Do you just that one, would you be lowly anyway, stop all the time, because all you're looking at is every single fucking bodies move and you're. Like fuck, I thought I thought tat this beer pissed off all the time she's not away to be, actually. This, too, I feel like I've seen some of those moments where people are getting kicked off. The ladder write offs, those moments and where I may I go into detail, but I think that's all is funny at least from the few times it I've seen it those people that are getting kicked off. They have no idea why that they were kicked off thereby who It gives us they think they're shit, she's, stolen out, do now. Nobody ahead of you want to help you and they refuse to help you because you're an asshole. How ignorant is that of awareness argued that a lack of awareness thing? What is it yeah? I Nobody ever said like they know, came to a realisation of like oh shit? I got actually work with people to be successful, but do people talk shoot about obama right. They say
a bottomless pit, peace and agri unlikely. Man yoga, okay, you know he said something back when he was in office that everybody got pissed off about, including me and he's like he was talking about your business and he's like you didn't build that business and he's actually right cause? You Can only do so much as one person you have to have people that help you and those people that help you are not just your employees they're, not just your family they're, not just your friends, they're, also your competitors and you have to get to a certain level to understand that, and most people never get to that level. It sad because a lot of people will build a good business, be angry doing it. Then you kicked off. uttering be more angry because a business is progressing like it. Should without the awareness of like do the reason. Your your business is not progressing like shit it is because all the other guys that hold the key for you to keep moving up
giving you any access to it moves reform. Now it is your fault, so don't you didn't move a lab surveys in is that the truly successful people are really able to do that that godfather distinction between its personal or its business, like in the political rum, you look back in the eighties and you had ronald reagan, conservative republican president and then you had tipp o neill. Who was you know, left leaning, democratic house speaker right well in their personal lives, they were really really good friends in their political lives. They were Arden enemies and people used to like scratch. Your heads going like how is this even possible and they asked reagan about a one time and he said oh cartels in the evening pistols at dawn, and I think I think that's the mentality that successful people have like. I can be personal friends with somebody I can. I can wish them well, I can do whatever I can to to contribute to their their success, but when it comes to go ahead
the head yeah battle, I'll, tell you this: the top ten people I talk to on a regular basis. Eight of them are competitors of mine, hm hm. That's reality in some way, shape or form, and you know what we don't give a fuck We're all and then, when I went and I'm fuckin tax amity, I do listen. We're happen, they're happy. when they went I'm happy. Its funding it makes a way more fine. Now I really want to access for this. Follow up. I don't think I've ever. I know I haven't actually this before, but when, when that that whole phrase It's like going back to violence. Point the whole phrase: business like its business business, is business right like what will what what situation was there were like? You first learn that then that came to be a true saying for you like you know, this is just business when when they come for you there
if few situations where I think that's actually true, I think that's a viewpoint of people that actually have never experienced it. I think, I think when you make a decision in business, there's always a personal aspect that like like, You have to let go of an employee right, there's two different perspectives that you have that suck they they they both suck. Or I hear it is this person's not doing their job they're they're hurting your culture, they're, not they're, not rowing the boat. The right way they don't deserve to be. Here again but you also know they have three kids at home. And you also know their bills to bay, and you also know that if you fuckin fire them, they're they're fought. On the other hand, you have to look at all people who around about they have to look at
the people who are on the team doing what they're supposed to do and working as hard as they can to get ahead, and if you don't let go of this person, you're hurting these people over here. Alright- and that's a very that's a tough spot that most people in business or as an employee of a company They. They assume that that thought never actually happens in the reason that you know a lot of people have their jobs is because there's grace given to that caution in the business right and so like I've. You know, I think, those guys who run their business as a business like I just fuck him. Let him go for. I agree with that, but I think, if that's how you bit if you run your business, that way you're, never gonna get the body culture of true human potential of creative buying. Amongst your amongst your movement, whenever that might be so I think it's just you know. I think. Sometimes you burn by. Sometimes you give somebody too much grace and they fuck you that's business
happens a lot at the end of the day, the net positive, as is far greater my pen. I love that move. I love it. Does any are third and final question question or three eighty. This is a question about la employees, leadership: Andy! it pay off to take employ these two leadership or personal growth seminars, or is it better to just teach leadership from within the company at eight both. I personally think it's better for you to learn the information and then be the teacher of the information because then Values coming from you, which means they reciprocate devalue right So what I mean when I mean by that is, if you know I. Learn something from urban Meyer right about leadership. Then I got aged whenever I learn, and
I'd say you know, I learned this rumour remiremont, I teach it. Ok, I think, when you outsource the, I think we are yet to be kept, for when you outsource the personal development people like liked outsource because they don't wanna put them time and and actually learning at themselves. They say are just send my guys to geocodes leaders school and they'll know combat perfectly, but here's the problem when they come back perfect leader Is there no relief for you right? Ok, there's an a lead, you actually I'm gonna go somewhere where they respect the leadership. Russian taught him, that's right. So, like you have to think of her from that aspect, I think there. definite value in sending your team to learn from. certain organizations as certain people, but I think, Let your also be coupled with you becoming the best teacher, of personal development and skill set that you possibly can be, and I the reason that a lot of people like to outsource their employees to other people s because they dont want
do it themselves very hard, it's very difficult. It takes a long time. But what they're short sighted and seeing is that they're, correct, they're missing a big opportunity to create some reciprocating value with your employees and your team know. You know where you think I think influence isn't just what is said. It's who is saying it- and I to your point, like you- can get information from anybody like anybody- can can watch videos from jocko or tony robbins or whoever happens to be the guru. But for you to actually exercise influence over your people, you have to be the one who's providing the influence you have to be with one who's teaching, because you're teaching within the context of a real relationship mean that I would argue that as great as those guys are they're never going to have the impact that you do as the the leader of your company, because you're going to you're going to not just provide information, you're going to provide incarnation you're going to lit literally
embody it in your day to day actions and that's going to exercise infinitely more power and influence over your people than any guru ever could. Why do you think it is that so many people, instead of learning this stuff themselves, want to outsource to other people,
I think it's just laziness, or do you think it's incompetence, or do you think it's lack of confidence like what are you thinking? I think it's a little both. I think I think people don't want to work hard. I sort of by nature. You have to force yourself to work a little harder, but I also think it's probably people. People probably assume that leadership is having all the answers which, I think you would agree is is not true leadership's not having all the answers. Now, it's being willing to find all the answers or to work on it until you get the answer, and I think people just need to give themselves a little bit more credit and say: okay, I don't have to. I don't have to have all the information you know in my head. I am a work in progress, but if I show people and you're good at this, what if I show people that you know just because I don't have the answer doesn't mean I can't find it. I think that's incredibly inspiring because you're taking people along on your journey and and that's what inspires people, I think
The other thing too- and I agree with that- I think another thing too with this- is that a lot of people think that leadership is an almost like an authoritarian role, and then you were like a dictator role when, in reality, leadership is not about having any of the answers. It's about being able to understand what are the answers, and so, when you're sitting, when the team and you ve got ten people in the room and you an idea, while those other nine people have an idea to ran yours, as a leader, is to have enough humility to let all his ideas, be heard and then pick the one, that's going to benefit your movement or your company or your team, the best, regardless of whose idea and ultimately, I think that's where leaderships either gets respecter and doesn't get respect based upon how well they navigate that dynamic, because when we think about today he'll bosses or see, owes or leaders. What do we think of? Could you that me where it shows like all these people, Poland, that big brick in the guy sit on the bricks? Yellin everybody
or any innocence, boss right more the delay yours up at the front line, poland, the brick right and then I once as leader, that's the truth, the leadership team, respected leaders are people who do not have all the answers, but act in what's in the best interests of all the people in the organization and organizations goals, regardless of that comes from their own brain or other people's brain, and I think a lot of people when it comes this topic of sending an outsourcing there their skill set. I think you know a lot of people have boss mentality. I think they think that they are going to. U no check out. On thursday and come back on tuesday, and you know me: as they sent all their leadership people to echelon run to learn leadership which, by the way, is an awesome, fucking programme, they they think they're just good and you know that a lot of work that don't that'll never work without your piece of it and so on.
You are either going to learn how to lead and you're going to learn how to teach and you're gonna learn how to create reciprocating value. Amongst your team recognize the five years or those quarrel people who are also who want to go when they're going to go win for somebody who does, any absolute select. Let's say our business owner, I'm listening to this and actually just filled out the fucking voices send my team, this off site, training like I- don't have the leadership skills, understand, there's a where do. I start I start by going with them, much sign yourself up to their cause. I was going to the right, ackland okra, exactly I love it. May look do reading to man like there's a lie. Learn from reading the help people there's plenty of people out there, the go and read books. I don't read books where you're fucking idiot right, because let me tell you something: there's only two ways to fucking learn two the first way as you go I'll get your brains behind you learn from your own experience,
What can we learn is below from other people's experience and you have books that have thousands of years of human experience every single aspect of reality. That or unwilling to tackle or look at or red or absorb. they think there's no value because you have some of these dumb ass is on the internet in books. Are our data, I don't read books. While you don't read books, brahma crush you crack, it's gonna, be it's gonna, be brutal, crushing. right, because I'm learning from said Nineteen other fucking leaders who have all been through the same shit, I'm goin to business, guys zeros, I've heard all there. experiences of it and you're just going off of what you think you think, maybe wait, you're gonna get your ass. Be that way as anybody, anybody who says books are overrated. I don't read, I don't do this bro don't ever buy. thing from don't listen to him, don't fucking! Nothing! Does
egotistical people who are trying to pretend like they have all the answers when they do not right, which is third part of this discussion, because that's the third part right, the third parties, people who capture all the information and then decide its all theirs and they learn from anybody in their Jesus. No, nobody likes that leader either so my advice is- and I don't care who this offence- someone tells you that they don't read books or that they don't fuckin, look at That's not someone worth listening to because there their only giving you fifty four, the available information which is based off their own experience, and I bet Probably someone who has that most in most cases does even had a much experience so that we talk about reading ten pages a day, a personal development in the live our programme, ass of mass of massive tool that most people don't utilise? You know there is no. difference we need someone who can read and someone
won't red. There's no fucking deference the same thing. Ok, so most people here are going through life. as an illiterate person, because choosing not to utilise the available resources around them. Think how ridiculous that is. I'm choosing to go through life illiterate. It's not a good idea. Does I love it now allow this was nice near at nice. Nice nice will change our pace it's cool immense. I guys, hey, listen thanks for joining us on the show. We appreciate you guys. We love you guys, do not forget the click subscribe, hey if you're listening on audio do is solid man go over Here too, I clicked subscribe, even if you don't want you to give us some help, man, we got millions and millions of people audio and are you to just started? We could use a little little extra boost their love,
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